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Good morning folks. May your Sunday be wonderfilled. I am thankful for a delicious thanksgiving meal which my sister made yesterday. (Not s thankful for the GI evening that followed, but...it was likely coming anyhow..part of the treatment...)

Today, I am going to attend the funeral of a wonderful woman who passed away to early, just before her 65th birthday. She had lots of great qualities, including being a professional soloist, singing in congregations and synagogues in Toronto. Her husband was a creative and dynamic personality who led our congregation in many ways...until the old school finally was able to take him down. It was one of our congregational crash and burns. It is a sign of how far the church came and who he is, that he had been re-engaged and that the funeral will be at the church.

I have not attended the church for a few years now, other than occassionally, and when I do, I tend to be approached, "when are you coming back", "we miss you" by those who are not in leadership and the current minister. I know that with my health issue and the announcement of my impending demise, there will be those who also approach, so I was struggling with going. I have an easy excuse, the immune compromised (me and those at Juravinski)

Yet, I want to attend a funeral.

Plan was made. A minister friend is going, and another good friend. They are going to grab seats with enough room for me to sit between them and will add morale and physical support. I will then arrive just before the service, and slip into them. The area they are picking is easy to get out of should i need to in a hurry.
 
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Congrats Chansen. When does the new one come home?

PS. I am also thinking of the emotions that happen when a new one comes into a home, which has lost a chlld. I send gentle thoughts to all of you....
 
Thinking of chansen and his new family dynamic! Hugs and love from the Room.
It's more like an old dynamic. One that we miss very much.

Congrats Chansen. When does the new one come home?

PS. I am also thinking of the emotions that happen when a new one comes into a home, which has lost a chlld. I send gentle thoughts to all of you....
Probably today. A 24 hour checkup for baby is pretty standard before discharge. Couldnt sleep much past 4 with anticipation, so watched Netflix and surfed. Could have been more productive.
 
It's more like an old dynamic. One that we miss very much.


Probably today. A 24 hour checkup for baby is pretty standard before discharge. Couldnt sleep much past 4 with anticipation, so watched Netflix and surfed. Could have been more productive.
Given your excitement and anticipation, watching Netflix and surfing is fine. This is a time to celebrate. Productivity can come back later. Congratulations to you and your family. :)
 
I've been twice to NB - once about 32 years ago on summer vacation, and once just briefly with our youth troup - probably 14 or so years ago on our Maritime tour. I guess I might be due!

Carolla - NB is a wonderful place to visit and you are long overdue.
Seriously, if you are contemplating a trip, I am in Fredericton - the capital and an interesting place year round (although I no longer can get out much for the outdoor winter activities - I used to cross country ski or walk the trails).
I would love to host you - or meet with you. Do consider.
Can't promise a WonderCafe gathering. I only know one other WC2 person in the city, although I think maybe another lives nearby.
 
Good morning folks. May your Sunday be wonderfilled. I am thankful for a delicious thanksgiving meal which my sister made yesterday. (Not s thankful for the GI evening that followed, but...it was likely coming anyhow..part of the treatment...)

Today, I am going to attend the funeral of a wonderful woman who passed away to early, just before her 65th birthday. She had lots of great qualities, including being a professional soloist, singing in congregations and synagogues in Toronto. Her husband was a creative and dynamic personality who led our congregation in many ways...until the old school finally was able to take him down. It was one of our congregational crash and burns. It is a sign of how far the church came and who he is, that he had been re-engaged and that the funeral will be at the church.

I have not attended the church for a few years now, other than occassionally, and when I do, I tend to be approached, "when are you coming back", "we miss you" by those who are not in leadership and the current minister. I know that with my health issue and the announcement of my impending demise, there will be those who also approach, so I was struggling with going. I have an easy excuse, the immune compromised (me and those at Juravinski)

Yet, I want to attend a funeral.

Plan was made. A minister friend is going, and another good friend. They are going to grab seats with enough room for me to sit between them and will add morale and physical support. I will then arrive just before the service, and slip into them. The area they are picking is easy to get out of should i need to in a hurry.
Way to go Pinga. Sorry for your loss but I'm glad you get to say good-bye in a worshipful way.
 
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I like positive reinforcement for my failings.

Are you sure you aren't missing the sarcasm?

chansen said:
If I can get some more, I'm also not adept at personal grooming.

Too easy.

a) I like what you have done with your hair.

b) I don't think I have ever seen those colours/patterns/styles used together in quite that way. It is very unique.
 
The baby race wasn't even close. My sister posted a picture on FB yesterday. She had called me a bit in a panic in Aug/Sept as she had no plan for the dog and the last time I spent a great deal of time there it didn't go well. She knew she had people to help but was worried about arranging who would be there when. I can do that, along with helping. I had spent the night when I did my first long stint of dog-sitting and I think that's what really did me in, especially since the dog likes to jump into the beds.

I just got the contacts a few days ago, so I think she's been more relaxed since that panicked phone call!
 
I like positive reinforcement for my failings.

If I can get some more, I'm also not adept at personal grooming.
Oh brother....I was trying to say something that wouldn't get me in trouble! Congratulations on all you ineptitude, but also all the wonderful, which includes a new family member.
 
OMG Chansen!!! That's awesome news!! How's your wife? What make is the baby? Whoot!! So exciting. What does the big sister think? Congrats!!!!

Congrats to the new Aunt @ChemGal - is this your first niece/nephew?
 
OMG Chansen!!! That's awesome news!! How's your wife? What make is the baby? Whoot!! So exciting. What does the big sister think? Congrats!!!!

Congrats to the new Aunt @ChemGal - is this your first niece/nephew?
Yep. Actually first little one I will get to be around much. With my family there are 3, but they are provinces away. With Chemguy's family there are some children, but they are on his Dad's side of the family and we aren't really all that included with that family.

His Mom's side everyone is in Calgary and right now I don't even think there's another serious couple.
The kids I mentioned above are now in high school and university, they are the youngest cousins.
 
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