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Thanks Seeler. I'm not feeling great today, but not too horrible either. My biggest problem is just the lack of knowing, my throat is slightly sore today - is it HAE or not? It's not just me, doctors can't tell me either. The mild pain is consistent and it's a regular treatment day, so I'll just wait until Chemguy gets home unless it starts to change. Until then I'm going to be a bit lazy. It would have been nice to get some things done, but I feel like my body has been in a state of minor or working up to an attack all week, so rest for now it is.

I'm hoping that the 3rd treatment this week will give me energy for this weekend. There are quite a few things to do around the house and I have some things to drop off for someone.
 
Last night, I was on edge.

A year ago, in the United Way campaign planning at our workplace, I suggested that do to changing structures that we grow leaders. I made a proposal to the committee and defended it, that we should hve a special prize for first-time leadership offerings, and that we should also have a leaders breakfast. Now, I had some push back, but, was able to persuade them, and we grew our leaders by 25%. Not bad, when leadership givers have been reitirng, and no new ones coming in.

The leadershp breakfast I really wanted as a kickoff for this years campaign, again with push back, but I persisted that we would wait.

I scooted out locales for breakfast (surprisingly hard to find, and I really wanted to go somewhere ice. I eneded up opting for my favourite funky coffee shop as long as everyone could climb stirs.
Over the last month and a half, I had tried to find dates that the executive leaders could make for a breakfast I did a survey to see if people were interested, and wrote some persuasive emails.

Yet, as of last night, I had a dreaded feeling. Our campaign leader wouldnt' be able to make it. I only had two executive accepted, adn thre givers, others were tentative, hadn't responded or just declined.

I had also had a skip with the coffee place.....and though it should be simple, I was trying not to picture worst case scenario.

1. Two or three people would show up
2. Th e locale would be a wash
3. people would sit like bumps on a log

Well, i am thrilled to say that I left th breakfast this morning thorougly pumped.

There were 7 leaders, plus 2 executive, and wow, the passion of those folks.
We hung out and chatted as people got their coffee, then, moved to meeting space. I laid the cards on the table, that the United Way is looking at serious decline in our workforce.
a) our leadership givers are retiring
b) we have primarily contractors in teh workforce (as compared to employees), so payroll deductions does not work the same way
c we have a large number of new canadians with no experience of united way
d) we are matrix reported, so harder to do a leader who can speak to all of the Canadians.

Well, they listened and responded. The ideas, and the workign through them, with clear practical implications.

At 815 I had them sit down to the table, by 8:25 they were in serious problem solving mode, by 8:50 I was giving them the 10min until we are done, and they just kept going. Pastries & fruit were brought in, and they decided they didn't need breakfast the treats were fine. They kept going. At 9, I told them again, and at 9:10, I shared that I was pretty sure some of them had to go, adn that we should honour the time and wrap up.

Anyhow, from dread and a sleepless night, as I pondered ways to work through the various scenarios and how to engage a small group, to great ideas.

What was awesome, is that they are all passionate about the United Way, (as I suspected), and they thanked me for bringing them together to help troubleshoot this one.

** feeling really happy tonight.
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ChemGal, one of the things that I asked the leaders, is what transitioned you from a giver to a leader. An interesting comment from one person was they transitioned a portion of their money from their church to the United Way as so much to the church was going to the operation of the church, as compared to community work. Quite interesting comment, I think.
 
Way to go, Pinga! Sounds like a wonderful gathering, and successful to boot! Way to persevere with what you thought was the right thing to do.

I agree about the donations from the church going to the operation of the church . . . the bulk of our givings goes to ministry personnel salaries and then the send highest is the physical operation of the church . . . hydro, water and garbage, taxes, repairs and furnishings, etc. This is why I would like to see a community church building that is used by a variety of denominations with shared costs and sharing of resources.
 
Good job Pinga! I agree that church income mostly goes to maintenance of the 'private club' ethic - salaries, repairs, regular bills for water, heat etc, with in some cases nothing much left over for the things many of us value, like supporting those with various problems and helping widen the horizons of the neighborhood children.
 
Interesting - Gretta Vosper will be coming to my community once a month now ... I'm going to check it out tomorrow evening. I've heard her speak before, but have not attended worship led by her - so I'm curious. http://www.westhill.net/blog/2014/9/12/westhillmississauga.html

Was out at my monthly women's euchre group last night - such a terrific collection of interesting women - lots of laughing, supportive & challenging conversation, drinking, eating - and some cards played as well!

A lazy day today - cold wind blowing here too, and showery this morning. I have more garden work to do, but am staying in this afternoon by the fireplace, working on my M&P budget proposal for next year. Numbers are not easy for me :confused:
 
Congrats Pinga! Sounds like you are doing very worthwhile things. Carolla...lazy days are very worthwhile too. Hope you recharge.
 
Interesting - Gretta Vosper will be coming to my community once a month now ... I'm going to check it out tomorrow evening. I've heard her speak before, but have not attended worship led by her - so I'm curious.

First time I've heard of a progressive church doing a "plant". Hope it works and maybe blossoms into a second congregation eventually.

Dad's in his nursing home now. Not all rosy but mostly going well. Nurses say he's about a normal for a new resident in his condition. We're watching closely anyhow.
 
@Mendalla I hope it starts to feel like home to him soon.

I'm still feeling run down, not sure what's going on. Chemguy had a cold, but was coughing and congested. I feel like I'm sick, but don't have obvious cold symptoms and typically I would be sicker than he was from the same thing. I at least got some things done and Chemguy put up our Christmas lights and Hallowe'en jack o' lantern lights. I was surprised, I came out of the shower and he was outside, doing it. I figured I would have to ask him a few more times when there's no snow. Once we get permanent snow, it's a lost cause, we were a bit slow on buying them last year as I was disappointed with the colour options now that it's almost all LED. When we finally bought them, he refused to get up on a ladder! He also isn't sympathetic or helpful if I'm hurt or sick because of doing something like going out in the cold, trying to put lights up so that wasn't a great option either.
 
Glad your lights are up chemgal-I need to change mine. They are currently white and energy eating-I have the new multicoloured ones and clips but heights make me nervous. I really should just borrow a ladder and do it.
 
And then there are those of us who have abandoned lights altogether. My son and I fiddled and farted around for years before deciding that our house was intended to remain unlit.

I am glad this morning is over. Our congregation did a pulpit exchange this morning, and I agreed to lead the service (except for the sermon, delivered by said exchange). It went reasonably well, but I found the anticipation and execution rather stressful.
 
Glad your lights are up chemgal-I need to change mine. They are currently white and energy eating-I have the new multicoloured ones and clips but heights make me nervous. I really should just borrow a ladder and do it.
Will one of your sons help you out?

We have less up than my ideal, our house has many roof layers. I would love to see them all with lights, Chemguy won't even go up to our garage peak, he just does the flat part. I wouldn't want him going up to the top even if he was willing, at that point I would want a pro, and they are too expensive. I was surprised how many lights we went through, I thought we might have at least an extra string, but as it was when we wrapped down our pillar on our porch it ended just slightly too soon. Good excuse for Chemguy to not do our garage peak!
 
Just back from leading a worship service in a small church just outside of the city. I've been there several times so it is feeling more like 'home' but not quite. I enjoy delving into scripture and trying to come up with a meaningful message. But I'm taking a bit of a break after Christmas. I'm afraid I'm not 'giving' as much in the message as I want to. In announcements, the Presbytery rep talked about the proposed one order of ministry. I took it as an opportunity to explain what a Licensed Lay Worship Leader is...so that they don't get me mixed up with an ordained minister or someone trying to replace an ordained minister.
 
Christmas Lights up? Wow, we aren't thruogh Hallowe'en yet, seems early. yet, I get if winter comes early you want to be ready.

We had a family wedding last night. Went to it, with the good nnd bad of family weddings. Good to see all the cousins hanging out, and to have dinner with family. They had a photobooth , which was fun.

Tomorrow, I head to Boston. Today I fell back asleep when I woke up at my normal time, and didn't wake up until noon. I know that I needed it. Now, I need to et my day moving, after a few hours of cleaning , cooking and tv.
 
Christmas lights?!!! It's too early for me to start thinking about lights. But when I do, I will string them round the two lilac bushes in the front lawn (they are still in leave now, but turning yellow). No more climbing up on ladders or the roof for Seelerman and me.

I had a delightful visit with my younger sister from Ontario and her husband these last four days. We get along really well. Twice we went square dancing. Twice we played cards (men against women - they won one, we won one). A game of Mexican Train (dominoes). A short visit out to our daughters. Church this morning. Then a gathering at the house - two cousins, with spouses, Seelergirl and Grandson, sister and spouse, as well as Seelerman and me. We made Mystery Soup. Each person brought a can of soup (no creamed types). We opened them and dumped them into a pot with an equal amount of water, heated and stirred together (vegetable, chicken noodle, chicken vegetable, onion, 3 cans tomato). Served with crackers, rolls, and a vegie tray. Surprisingly good. Ice cream and home made oatmeal cookies with tea. All crowded into my small livingroom - eating off the card table, coffee table, and a couple of side tables. We managed. And a good time was had by all!

Everybody gone by 3:00 pm. I filled the dishwasher, got the bedding in the washer -- and collapsed.

We stayed up late every night, talking, sharing pictures (they had a trip to Ireland this past summer), generally enjoying each others' company.

The house seems quiet and empty now.
 
Christmas lights?!!! It's too early for me to start thinking about lights. But when I do, I will string them round the two lilac bushes in the front lawn (they are still in leave now, but turning yellow). No more climbing up on ladders or the roof for Seelerman and me.
It's pretty common to have snow for Halloween. It's much easier to get them up before there's snow. We aren't turning them on or decorating for Christmas yet otherwise. If it didn't involve a ladder, we'd wait.

Is it that odd to do it this early? I think even if we were paying for it, it can't wait until December, they get too booked up by then.
 
@Carolla I was just thinking that it was quiet

I don't know what happened. I don't know what I was going to say.
I must have forgot to post reply. Sorry guys
 
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