pavlos said:
No! But we are open to anything, however should we impose our beliefs on our children?
When we share what we believe, whether it be the existence of God or Gods or the non-existence of God or Gods we are imposing our belief on others. Particularly when it comes to a parent sharing with our children.
There is a huge difference between imposing and indoctrination. I've not said that children wont pick up what their parents believe in, but making them kneel and pray, or go to church, or saying grace at dinner, or telling them that a sky daddy is watching them is indoctrination and abuse. Children should be allowed to be children.
revjohn said:
if I agreed that teaching my children about God or Gods was a positive value I would teach my children about God or Gods and I likely would be critical of parents that refused to teach their children about God or Gods.
Exactly, Because you yourself were indoctrinated into the cult you yourself do the same to your children such is the nature of indoctrination, it would be pretty poor indoctrination if the victim knew they had been indoctrinated.
revjohn said:
pavlos said:
What would you be had you had no religious influences until you were say thirteen, (adolescence) then you would be able to decide for yourself.
You would be conditioned to believe that there is no value to religious influence and most likely to continue to ignore or reject religious influence. Or, something about a religious experience might open your eyes to the possibility of there being something more to the atheism you believe is the default position of humanity.
Never said that the child should be brought up atheist, my point is there should be a neutral position, not simple either or.
revjohn said:
Certainly, there are testimonies of individuals who have been atheist and have embraced theism of one kind or another,
No there are only people claiming they were atheist, Without a blow to the head or a major trauma in a atheists life, there is no way they would become theist. that is the only way it happens else it just doesn't make sense.
revjohn said:
pavlos said:
Don't you think it would be much fairer to be given a choice?
Optically yes. It would be fairer. Parenting being what it is choice is not considered much of an option.
Especailly when the indoctrinated, are indoctrinating the children. but sadly they know no better.
revjohn said:
The choice to be an atheist or a theist is not like choosing vanilla over chocolate unless we spend 13 or so years telling our children that chocolate is good and vanilla is evil. What happens when that child is finally given an opportunity to try what has been forbidden and is told that they are free to make a choice?
With children being able to decide for themselves the choice is to remain exactly as you are or become theist there is no either or. Neutral is the default position. It is only referred to as atheist by the theist. Which as I said in an earlier post is a negative label imposed on those who don't believe in your particular brand of god or any god for that matter. Tecnically we are born neutral and as such without god which means atheist to the theist. I'm only using the term to get my point across.
revjohn said:
For starters they will be suspicious because if vanilla is as evil as their parents have been saying all these years there will be no way they dare try it.
This is exactly why indoctrination should not be allowed.
revjohn said:
Why, for example would your children think that you would freely let them choose religion when they know you equate it with child abuse and slavery?
Because they would also know it was their choice and their choice alone.
revjohn said:
I gather you do not speak about either as being good in any way so how "free" are your children really going to be when you permit them to make that choice?
This is the point of them not being indoctrinated, they would not need my permision, it would be solely their decision without any input for me to either or.
revjohn said:
And what consequences would you visit upon them if they chose what you reject?
Nothing see above statement. just as if one of my children were gay or wanted to marry a different colour, creed, or nationality. It would not matter to me, it would be solely their choice. I would be happy that they were happy.
blackbelt1961 said:
pavlos said:
Atheist means "Without God". Are we with god, No! But we are open to anything, however should we impose our beliefs on our children?What would you be had you had no religious influences until you were say thirteen, (adolescence) then you would be able to decide for yourself. Whether religion were true or not. But sadly you weren't given that choice. It isn't a good thing to claim you were baptised in the first year.
That is inculcation/indoctrination of an innocent, totally wrong! It is almost child abuse.
You were forced to be a slave to the system.
Don't you think it would be much fairer to be given a choice?
if you think no child will grow up with external influences from there parents and society you are a big dreamer , what choices do they have if they are not taught them in the first place?
this is one of the more stupid atheistic arguments unless you want your child to grow up on mars completely isolated from human influence.
I did not say they would not get influenced in some way but there is a huge difference between indoctrination and influence.
blackbelt1981 said:
pavlos said:
Atheist means "Without God". Are we with god, No!
actually your wrong, Atheism is a belief that there is no God and more sophisticated atheists would rather say a lack of belief this way they are not admitting, in there mind anyhow that atheism is indeed a belief faith .
You're wrong on both counts, from wikipedia "The term "atheism" originated from the Greek ἄθεος (atheos), meaning "without god(s)", used as a pejorative term applied to those thought to reject the gods worshiped by the larger society."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Atheism And atheism is a belief system, like bald is an hair colour.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
What would you be had you had no religious influences until you were say thirteen, (adolescence) then you would be able to decide for yourself.
Decide what for myself exactly? Decide to belong to an organized religion or not? Yes Pavlos, I believe you to be correct on that one. I see that as a different thing, however, than the capability to decide to have faith or not.
Doesn't follow.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
Whether religion were true or not.
On what grounds would I be making that decision? On the grounds of my own limited human reason? If so, I would most probably choose not.
That would be the most reasonable conclusion. Given you're a human, well I hope so.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
But sadly you weren't given that choice.
Sadly Pavlos, I feel you may be confusing religion with faith. I did not have a choice when it came to faith. It was a gift given to me by God. I did have a choice when it came to religion - if not in childhood, then in later years.
No! Sorry god had nothing to do with your faith, that was indoctrination.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
That is inculcation/indoctrination of an innocent, totally wrong! It is almost child abuse.
Almost child abuse - by whom? God?
No! By your parents. but sadly they were indoctrinated too. and as such also victims. they know not what they do.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
You were forced to be a slave to the system.
Ah, but I believe we are all slave to someone.
You may be. But I'm not.
pr.jae said:
pavlos said:
Don't you think it would be much fairer to be given a choice?
A choice of choosing my religion? I did have a choice - to leave organized Christianity or not. I have chosen to remain within it.
And that is only because you had been indoctrinated.
pr.jae said:
In terms of being given faith, however, I did not have a choice. I did not have a choice as an infant. I would not have had a choice at age 13. I was dead in my trespasses and sins.
No! Exactly you were indoctrinated.
waterfall said:
pavlos said:
Look how crazy the world is through following the irrational and illogical. witch burnings in Africa, beheading in Syria, blowing up abortion clinic, skyscrapers and music venues.
The most sane places on the planet are those that have less religion. I wonder why that is.
I assume you are talking about Sweden and Norway?
No! not just them. Iceland, Denmark, Japan, there are several.
waterfall said:
To always say that religion is the cause of most of the worlds insanity is troublesome.
Well you are welcome to show that it isn't
waterfall said:
Do you really think that by erasing religion off the face of the map that evil will be eradicated?
No! When did I say we should erase religion of the map.
waterfall said:
No I am not. I am a humanist.
waterfall said:
[so be it, live and let live.....you say there is no God.and you are happy with that.
No! I don't say that at all that would be foolish, As I cant look under every nook and crannie in the universe to see if one is there. it is merely unreasonable and irrational to think that one exist. but I cant rule it out completely.
waterfall said:
I am a theist and embrace all that God is.
You can believe in whatever you want to believe in.
waterfall said:
I know! Hence why I feel sad for you.