An article "The church is killing its gay kids"

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I know of one here on Wondercafe two. Her name is Unsafe. Yet you don't believe her as well. She even post another person who was in a gay relationship. That now preaches to others. But you do not here.I wonder how many of those on this thread even watched the vid . I believe one even said it took to much of her life time to watch it, sad.


Really! Airclean - you are telling everyone here that Unsafe is gay! Do you have her permission to 'out' her? If not, it is extremely bad manners to 'out' a gay person who may wish to remain in the closet or only be 'out' to their closest friends.
 
Really! Airclean - you are telling everyone here that Unsafe is gay! Do you have her permission to 'out' her? If not, it is extremely bad manners to 'out' a gay person who may wish to remain in the closet or only be 'out' to their closest friends.
Seeler - unsafe already shared in this thread that she's gay.
 
Actually unsafe revealed that a long time ago.

Seeler, while your position about outing someone is correct, targetting airclean for admonition is not in this case.
Nevertheless revsdd, I was correct in stating that she had shared so in this particular thread. I didn't say she had first shared it here.
 
LOL ----Great answer revsdd ------it seems no one wants to answer because the truth is we Christians who follow Christ can't separate the 2 ---The 2 are connected and we are away from God and under our sin nature until we accept Christ who is the only one who can remove our sin nature and set us free from what the sin nature controls and give us eternal life -----both are listed in Galatians 5---ERV

The Spirit and Human Nature


16 So I tell you, live the way the Spirit leads you. Then you will not do the evil things your sinful self wants.17 The sinful self wants what is against the Spirit, and the Spirit wants what is against the sinful self. They are always fighting against each other, so that you don’t do what you really want to do.18 But if you let the Spirit lead you, you are not under law.[a]
19 The wrong things the sinful self does are clear: committing sexual sin, being morally bad, doing all kinds of shameful things,20 worshiping false gods, taking part in witchcraft, hating people, causing trouble, being jealous, angry or selfish, causing people to argue and divide into separate groups,21 being filled with envy, getting drunk, having wild parties, and doing other things like this. I warn you now as I warned you before: The people who do these things will not have a part in God’s kingdom.22 But the fruit that the Spirit produces in a person’s life is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these kinds of things.24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified their sinful self. They have given up their old selfish feelings and the evil things they wanted to do.25 We get our new life from the Spirit, so we should follow the Spirit.26 We must not feel proud and boast about ourselves. We must not cause trouble for each other or be jealous of each other.

So the young ones who are attracted to same sex in my opinion should be given the option to decide for themselves who and what they want to believe after knowing all the facts -----being told both sides --- The Spirit and Human Nature -----The Truth will set Them free ----

Below is what I have taken from this discussion today ----I thank BetteTheRed who was the only one who came across with why she believes what she does and it made perfect sense to me -----she doesn't believe in the garden story ----and believes it is a metaphor -----so for her homosexuality is from God ----

Now for anyone who does not believe in the fall in the Garden will not believe we are born with a sin nature and therefore will believe that we are still connected to God without Christ and will say that being LGBTQ is a gift from God and doesn't have anything to do with any fall or birth into a sin nature ----and this makes sense to me -----
 
unsafe said:
it seems no one wants to answer because the truth is we Christians who follow Christ can't separate the 2 ---The 2 are connected and we are away from God and under our sin nature until we accept Christ

Well. Almost no one. Have I never mentioned the doctrine of Total Depravity? Ever? Think I have at least once.

Of course if we are going to take something like "sin nature" seriously we need to honour the fact that the sin nature complete corrupts and twists humanity so that it will not look for God or even attempt something so noble as accepting Christ. Hence the need for God's grace which God bestows on whomever God wills to give it.

God's grace is not given to us because we manage the magic words. God's grace is not given to us because we wear the right clothing. God's grace is not given to us because of anything we do, think, or believe. None of it matters. Why? Because all of it is sinful, all of it falls short, all of it is corrupted. Humanity, in its totality, is depraved.

God's grace convicts us of our sin and only God's grace can begin to convince us of God's forgiveness.

It is a sign of our sinful nature that we assign ourselves roles in our own salvation. It is a sign of our sinful nature that we will condemn others because their beliefs differ from our own.

Redeemed by the Grace of God through the death and resurrection of God the Son we are at best extras with non-speaking parts in the drama of salvation. God chooses us while we are dead in our sins and only God has the power to raise us to life out of that sin.

So, those who are found in Christ Jesus are those that the Father gave to him. We were lost not Jesus.

Whether we choose to identify as Christian, Born Again, or Regenerate we are confronted with the truth of scripture that that new life we enjoy is a product of God's free and perfect will not our human and fallen one.

If the Spirit convicts me that what I am about is sinful. I should repent of it.
If the Spirit of God chooses not to convict me of a specific sin there are two possibilities. One, that I am so hard of heart that God has stopped trying or, Two, that what I am about is not sinful.

Because I know that I have the ability to lie to myself and deceive myself I belong to a community which holds me accountable and I continue to engage in the study of scripture.

My language of choice might differ from other Christians, that is more a matter of dialect than it is an ability to hear (or lack of ability to hear as the case may be) the Spirit of God speaking.

All have sinned and all have fallen short of the glory of God. Any Christian want to disagree with that?

Do we come nearer to the standard by correcting others? I'm not convinced that we do.

So what do we do when our brother or sister has a different idea about what is or isn't sinful than we do?

Eating pork prohibited in scripture. Later it is permitted. "Let no one call unclean what I have made clean."

Is God talking about what was made clean at Creation or is God talking about what has been made clean through the redemptive work of Christ?

Does it really matter?

Do we have permission to call the one unclean and not the other?

We are called not to bear false witness, is it enough to do so, shrug our shoulders and then say that we never claimed to be perfect? If so then the excuse must be permitted to others must it not.

In the realm of competing claims does the claim of person A automatically negate claim of person B? Only if Persons A and B are making claims about the same thing.

The first commandment is to love God. The second commandment is to love our neighbour. How far down the list do we go before we reach the commands that tell us our neighbours are flat out wrong?

I suspect that depending on the prevalence of our sin nature it is closer to the top than it is the bottom.
 
But that's not what you said - you quoted a bit of Leviticus - man shall not lie with man as with a woman, then you added in your own interpretation of Romans.

Do you know that orthodox Judaism doesn't use Torah to forbid lesbian activity? They resort to a little known Babylonian Talmud passage that forbids "frottage"...

Cherry picking is one thing. Jamming two pieces of unrelated scripture together to condemn people is even worse, in my book.
- Hi BetteTheRed--1037--Look back at what your claiming . I never did say the passages they came from. Yet when you said Roman's , I turned to see it dose talk about men and women.
 
Well. Almost no one. Have I never mentioned the doctrine of Total Depravity? Ever? Think I have at least once.

Of course if we are going to take something like "sin nature" seriously we need to honour the fact that the sin nature complete corrupts and twists humanity so that it will not look for God or even attempt something so noble as accepting Christ. Hence the need for God's grace which God bestows on whomever God wills to give it.

God's grace is not given to us because we manage the magic words. God's grace is not given to us because we wear the right clothing. God's grace is not given to us because of anything we do, think, or believe. None of it matters. Why? Because all of it is sinful, all of it falls short, all of it is corrupted. Humanity, in its totality, is depraved.

God's grace convicts us of our sin and only God's grace can begin to convince us of God's forgiveness.

It is a sign of our sinful nature that we assign ourselves roles in our own salvation. It is a sign of our sinful nature that we will condemn others because their beliefs differ from our own.

Redeemed by the Grace of God through the death and resurrection of God the Son we are at best extras with non-speaking parts in the drama of salvation. God chooses us while we are dead in our sins and only God has the power to raise us to life out of that sin.

So, those who are found in Christ Jesus are those that the Father gave to him. We were lost not Jesus.

Whether we choose to identify as Christian, Born Again, or Regenerate we are confronted with the truth of scripture that that new life we enjoy is a product of God's free and perfect will not our human and fallen one.

If the Spirit convicts me that what I am about is sinful. I should repent of it.
If the Spirit of God chooses not to convict me of a specific sin there are two possibilities. One, that I am so hard of heart that God has stopped trying or, Two, that what I am about is not sinful.

Because I know that I have the ability to lie to myself and deceive myself I belong to a community which holds me accountable and I continue to engage in the study of scripture.

My language of choice might differ from other Christians, that is more a matter of dialect than it is an ability to hear (or lack of ability to hear as the case may be) the Spirit of God speaking.

All have sinned and all have fallen short of the glory of God. Any Christian want to disagree with that?

Do we come nearer to the standard by correcting others? I'm not convinced that we do.

So what do we do when our brother or sister has a different idea about what is or isn't sinful than we do?

Eating pork prohibited in scripture. Later it is permitted. "Let no one call unclean what I have made clean."

Is God talking about what was made clean at Creation or is God talking about what has been made clean through the redemptive work of Christ?

Does it really matter?

Do we have permission to call the one unclean and not the other?

We are called not to bear false witness, is it enough to do so, shrug our shoulders and then say that we never claimed to be perfect? If so then the excuse must be permitted to others must it not.

In the realm of competing claims does the claim of person A automatically negate claim of person B? Only if Persons A and B are making claims about the same thing.

The first commandment is to love God. The second commandment is to love our neighbour. How far down the list do we go before we reach the commands that tell us our neighbours are flat out wrong?

I suspect that depending on the prevalence of our sin nature it is closer to the top than it is the bottom.
Here I would agree about Total Depravity, and I would add that God gives us his saving grace through the conduits he has chosen for such a purpose - his Word, baptism, and communion.
 
LOL ----Great answer revsdd ------it seems no one wants to answer ...

You seem to be implying that my reply is evasive. Your question was how to justify the belief that homosexuality is a gift. I don't believe it's a gift; therefore I can't answer that question. If you want an acknowledgement of humanity's sinful nature I think you're asking for the obvious. All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Frankly I've said that many times and I don't have the patience of revjohn to keep repeating at length what I've already said.
 
No, because unsafe wants a specific answer - not only that humanity is born into "original sin" but that, specifically, a non-straight orientation is some sort of complete and direct evidence of such a "fall".
 
Sorry RitaTG. But since another has post against me here . That person being Jon 71 .I will break my word . And come back into this thread. airclean33
Well that didn't take you long. I thought giving your word was like a promise and not easily broken. You would think that could be classified as sin in a biblical context but I would just say your word is a little weak at least in this case.
 
It all gets to prove what we know (relatively speaking) ... true love leaving us depraved of thought .. and thus the stoop'd condition ...
 
Maybe conifer an Emma.


NOSH-ite ... and "-ite" meaning an alloying factor? One has to read deeply with love of understanding ... something King Jaimes hated in others ... or alternates to himself as representative of God ... sibling rivalry? A battle over nothing if love truly is non-existent in the realm of cultivated hate for other denominations ... alternate koine? Variablity of weal th!
 
You can all say what you like---belief is everything here and that was my main goal and my concern in my Original Question Post ----it is not at all about homosexuality being a gift or not it is about which side it comes from the Spiritual Nature side or the Sin Nature side -----The fall of mankind and the nature we are born with from that fall tells us it is not a gift ---it is a result of the fall and comes under that Sin Nature we are born with and we are in fact away from God and controlled by that sin nature until we accept Christ and have our nature changed -----So For Followers of Christ and belief in His word homosexuality has nothing to do with God it is connected to the fall of man and the Sin Nature ---Iniquity ---weakness that is carried on from generation to generation if the Nature of the parents are not changed ---------BUT if you don't believe in the fall of mankind ----then to those people it is a gift to them from God cause they believe they are born with God ----So it makes a big difference as to the belief and I was not understanding why RitaTG and BetTheRed were saying they feel they are blessed and it is a gift from God to be LGBTQ ------BetTheRed has confirmed that she does not believe in the fall and so for me that was the enlightenment I needed -----

My other concern is for the young people who are told that being LGBTQ is a blessing and a gift from God because of their belief and not disclose that just maybe there is another side ---a Spiritual Nature that is in place and lead them to a person who can tell them the difference and let them then decide the Right side ---Sin Nature or Spiritual Nature for themselves not just have people lead them down a road that is the wrong way -

I am appalled that it has been said there is no patience to keep going over things ---this thread is about young people killing themselves because they are LGBTQ we say we have no patience to keep on until we can find out ways to stop this ------The Ministers and the church should have all the patience and time to spend on this issue -----The Human Nature and the Spiritual Nature should be discussed and brought to the light so that these young ones have a choice and are lead not just in one direction but are schooled in all directions and by doing this lives could be or just might be saved -----So Patience is vital and needed on this issue ------in my opinion ------no matter how many times it has to be said and gone over -----and any Minister or church who has a problem with no patience should not be in God's House in my opinion
 
Is patience a virtue? Is truth a virtue or just doing what you please to do for personal purpose? No thoughts of the alternate allowed ... is this in conflict with deep feeling buried in the story ?
 
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