Delightful Life
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In another scene Jessie compares life to a bus ride. She says it's hot, crowded & noisy and the only reason you don't get off is that your destination is 10 stops away. She says if she gets off now, or later, it's the same place when she steps down to it. In another part of the movie she says that she thought about sticking around if there was just something that she really liked, like rice pudding or cornflakes- but Jessie is a person robbed of any enthusiasm for life. So for her, staying around, especially for others, just doesn't make sense any more- she's had enough. ... 'Nite' Mother...your short ride on the long bus ticket
So then somebody just give her some rice pudding and cornflakes already. Is that so much to ask? Good morning sunshine!In another scene Jessie compares life to a bus ride. She says it's hot, crowded & noisy and the only reason you don't get off is that your destination is 10 stops away. She says if she gets off now, or later, it's the same place when she steps down to it. In another part of the movie she says that she thought about sticking around if there was just something that she really liked, like rice pudding or cornflakes- but Jessie is a person robbed of any enthusiasm for life. So for her, staying around, especially for others, just doesn't make sense any more- she's had enough. ... 'Nite' Mother
The problem is @Hermann the law did open up to those experiencing mental despair who are not dying. And I suspect, because there are people here so delighted about having assisted suicide available for real end of life decisions for people who are really and truly at the end of their lives, they are looking for ways to justify in their minds, the dangerous gaps that this ruling leaves for those who are not terminally ill.
MEDITATION FOR ALL SEMI-AWARE FIREARMS!
and EMBRACING of moments when we get SUPER-CLARITY from DEPRESSION!
semi-aware firearms known as human beings, ENGAGE!
Who decides who is disabled enough to be able to speeak?
Careful Northwind - you used the word 'disability'. According to some people that is a no-no. Maybe you should have used 'challenged'.
Careful Northwind - you used the word 'disability'. According to some people that is a no-no. Maybe you should have used 'challenged'.
Redhead you came late to the party, by 70 pages or so (whew what a party it's been as WC parties go - not the most fun). I admit that I started the kerfuffle by arguing that this ruling is dangerous for people with disabilities because it uses the word disability in a way that lumps it in with illness and disease - the old medical model - however, the newer social model adopted by the UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities that Canada ratified in 2010 after a long process of evolving anti-discrimination policy, and the social model is now incorporated into WHOs definition - was not used in this ruling. Disability rights groups fear that the equality of people with disabilities and the value of their lives living with disabilities will be diminished by this ruling because some would rather die than be disabled which is reflective of discriminatory attitudes about people with disabilities - heading down the slippery slope Hermann mentioned (and I have several times). Even in Canada it has only been a short time since people with disabilities were institutionalized and abused and maltreated and had no say in decisions about their needs.Honestly, this entire discussionis based on illness, the understanding of chronic, progressive disease(s) or injury and the rights of an individual to make a decision to end living with dignity, and peacefully. And truthfully, the use of language does matter. Understanding words really is important. To be criticised for understanding logic and for using words well only reflects poorly upon the critic.
Maybe we should talk about what terminal does not mean.I wonder if those of you who are tossing around the concept of 'terminal illness' as being the only possible reason for medically assisted dying realize that many illnesses are not 'terminal'. I just had a friend die suddenly of a heart attack. She was not yet 70. Tragedy? She has been in a nursing home with alzheimers for several years, no longer knows anybody, restless and not content. And until yesterday morning while inching her wheelchair around trying to escape she gasp suddenly and slumped over, she had a life expectancy of possibly 20 more years. Her disease took her mind - unfortunately she wouldn't have been able to ask for assisted death with dignity.
For many others, with ALS or Parkinsons, wee will watch our ability to control our bodies deteriorate over years unless some other disease or accident takes us first.
What does terminal mean? Everybody living will eventually die. So life itself is terminal. But it seems to me that for most people 'terminal' means a disease or condition that will result in death within a few days, weeks, or months.
And I don't think that I should have to wait until I contact or develop a terminal condition before I can decide that life has no more meaning for me.
@Seeler. I am sorry about your friend. I just caught after reading your post again, that it happened yesterday.