Mrs. Anteater....I understand exactly what you mean. And chansen...I think I would have enjoyed teaching your son! Even though I know I am currently in a place of privilege...no wars, no hurricanes, no poverty...my thanksgiving grace mentioned that we have our challenges and joys, and we are grateful for the strength and opportunity to meet both head on. I don't want to hide from the problems of the world, but I will pray for guidance to make my part of the world more humane and caring, and for guidance on what to do to help other parts of the world. But, as always, I wonder if there is more I should be doing, thinking, saying.... And: HAPPY THANKSGIVING to all the listeners and thinkers and doers here. You are appreciated!