Pr. Jae, let me reply to both you and Pontifex Geronimo 13 (hereafter referred to as "our friend") in the same post.
Okay. Thank you Steven for your thoughts.
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revsdd said:
That's where the rubber hits the road. The issue of interpretation. What can we do except be guided by the Holy Spirit as best as best as we can discern. In that vein, on the issue of homosexuality:
Yes, I agree - discerning what the Spirit of God has to teach us is very important. I believe that (amongst other ways) the Spirit works through the Scripture to bring us the truths of Christ.
revsdd said:
My own discernment after a lot of prayer and reflection on this issue (because it isn't an easy one and one can make the argument either way) is that God's real concern in a variety of subjects (marriage, divorce, adultery, idolatry, etc. etc.) is with honesty and faithfulness. God's concern is not with sex per se of any type but it is rather with the misuse of sex. If sex is used in such a way as to betray or harm another then I believe it is sinful because betrayal and harm are inconsistent with God's will. Thus, adulterous behaviour is sinful. Promiscuity is sinful. Pedophilia is sinful. Rape is sinful. Bestiality is sinful. In the absence of any betrayal or harm to another it is my opinion that God is not offended by sexual activity.
Steven, you say that the case can be made either way. Thank you for noting that. I agree, and I believe that sincere people with noble and loving hearts differ in their interpretation of these texts. I personally know no one who has deliberately entered into studying them with malicious intent. The people I know who have wound up finding themselves on both sides of the issue (if indeed there even are two clear sides) have entered into studying with a genuine interest in learning the ways of God that they might serve him better.
I agree that when it comes to sex and marriage, God desires us to be faithful and appropriately honest (no need to tell everyone everything, speaking the truth in love). At least for the purposes of our discussion, I will agree that those are the main desires that God has in terms of sex and marriage. I believe there are other ones too though. Things like holiness, connection, orderliness, and - hello - love.
I mention orderliness, because I think it important to note that God created things to be in good order. He made humanity to be in good stewardship of the rest of his creation. He made people to enjoy fellowship with him. And, judging by the creation accounts, at least the second one, he ordered human relationships in a set pattern as well, with the most intimate human relationship we can enjoy being between one man and one woman for life.
Now Steven, are you suggesting above that if something is harmful to another it is sin, but if it harms not, it is not sin? I don't want to misunderstand your words. I think that if we look at the life of Jesus, who I believe we agree did not sin, we might say that there were times when he harmed others. He called some people a brood of vipers. He once refused to see his mother and brothers when they came to visit him. He overthrew tables in the temple. God can be seen as being harmful in the OT as well. How many times has
@chansen asserted that God committed genocide.
revsdd said:
Thus, in Paul's context, homosexuality was problematic because it could not take place within a committed, covenantal relationship - ie, marriage. It was by definition either adulterous or promiscuous because either (1) it broke an existing committed, covenantal relationship, or (2) it was sex in the absence of a committed, covenantal relationship. My opinion is that if homosexual activity could be conducted within a committed and covenantal relationship, Paul would not be concerned with it, except to the extent that he would want the commitment and covenant upheld. In my view, that is actually a literal interpretation of all of Paul's writings about sexuality of any kind - and to anticipate an argument, if the issue were that I was simply trying to buy into the ways of the world, I would also be looking for an opportunity to justify adultery, which is tragically acceptable today, or promiscuity, which is commonplace today, or sex outside marriage, which is virtually everywhere today. I condone none of those. I argue that sex must take place within a committed and covenanted relationship, and I deplore the media's "normalization" of uncommitted sex; its portrayal of sexual activity as little more than playtime. It has to be taken more seriously than that. I support same sex marriage because it provides that commitment and covenant to what would be an otherwise problematic sexual relationship. In Paul's day, homosexuality could not pass that test.
One question I had when first reading your words here Steven was - if this is true, if Paul was out to stop all adultery and promiscuity, then why didn't he argue on behalf of same-sex marriages.
Having given it a tad more thought, maybe Paul just never thought of that. It may not have been a pressing issue of his time. Also, however, I'm aware, from having studied Paul's approach toward slavery for a paper I wrote, that he seems to have genuinely believed in the imminent return of Christ, and thus focused on spreading the gospel rather than on restructuring household codes.
revsdd said:
Tat's my interpretation. I think that a huge part of interpreting the Bible is to be taken up with understanding the cultural norms and practices of the society to which the various books of the Bible were written, and to discern "WHY" those books were written as they were. That principle guides me on this issue. I may be right or I may be wrong...
I agree Steven, it's important to note the human authors' cultural contexts, as they influenced what and how they wrote. At the same time I believe that their words extend beyond their contexts in that they contain God's truths poured into the human authors' minds by the Spirit of God.
revsdd said:
...My position is neither deliberately nor defiantly wrong. It is my attempt to discern the will of God.
Yes, I do believe that, and I thank you again for your thoughts.