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Dad's decline came to a rather abrupt conclusion, maybe a stroke, so we never saw him get to that point. Vibes to you, her, and other family members dealing with this.
 
Nancy said:
My mom is forgetting how to eat. She needs reminders about what the food on the plate is and what to do with it. She almost needs permission to eat and drink. This is the latest stage in her disease, and, my sister, who works for the Alzheimer's Society, tells us of possible next stages. Mental decline is hellish.
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Sorry to hear. That must be hard to go through. Yobo's mom who loves with us has Alzheimer's, so maybe we'll see the same from her in time
 
Good morning! Happy Wednesday! It is sad to watch a loved one go into deeper levels of illness. We hold a soft place in our hearts for Nancy and her mother, as they go through this stressful time; and for others who are going through it, or have gone through it. We gather to offer our support for them. We also come together to discuss the events of the day, and support one another in our struggles and trials, and build community with one another. We do this over coffee and tea; nd today we have doughnut holes to enjoy. The tea water is ready, the coffee is freshbrewed, and doughnut holes are fresh and warm. Everything is ready, everyone is welcome. Come join the conversations!

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I was at our church yesterday, repairing some flooring ... when out of the past came some classic relative ... it is hard to relate if you don't know the background or backside that has already gone by ... difficult to get straightened out ... I just can't explain it because of po' reception ...
 
Thanks for your kind words and thoughts. I know I am not alone in this journey, and many of you are experiencing it, or have experienced it. I am beyond lucky though that I have two sisters to share this with. We communicate regularly and take turns visiting. We sometimes visit together, and sometimes alone. This allows us to take holidays and do other things too. Right now one sister is visiting her new grandson in Thunder Bay, so my other sister and I will take turns. Tonight is my turn. Besides being distressed by the changes/decline, we also still comment on how lovely and loving our mother is. That makes it easier too.
 
The sale of my parents' house is back on the front burner. Yes, we've been trying to do this for years. They have to consolidate. The drive is too much. The work is too much. My mother is too much. You may think I'm stubborn. You've not met my mother.
 
chansen said:
You may think I'm stubborn. You've not met my mother.
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At least you came by it honestly. :giggle: I know my wife and son are more alike than he would probably care to admit. That's why he has more conflict with her than with me.
 
Nancy said:
Where will your parents move @chansen ?
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The ski cottage, up near Collingwood, ON. We built it in 84, renovated and added to it in 95, and it's quite a nice spot now. My dad has a nice wood shop up there, though thats mostly mine now as his ability to use the tools is failing. The doctor situation is improving and my dad has a local doctor interested in helping with his trigeminal neuralgia, which his Hamilton doctor has almost been disinterested in. They have a dentist in Meaford. I'm installing a mailbox for them next week. It's all coming together.

We still have to box up the last stuff in the house. Mostly clothes, and clean it again. Stuff like that. I get to walk on the metal roof and blow off the twigs, leaves and needles on more time, which is always fun. The pool needs more cleaning, and some maintenance, but that's on the new owners now.

My parents are not suffering from dementia, so those who walk that road have my sympathy. These two are still pretty sharp. My mom likely has autism, and Zach has taught me so much about dealing with her, because they are so alike. But she must have always had it. She was better at masking when she was younger. She's lost interest in that now. There has been no diagnosis. Why bother? It's pretty obvious. At least, now it is.

Financially, the ability to simply sell one residence means they're more than fine. My dad worked crazy hours for years, so they deserve this ability to stay in one spot, a nice spot they love, for as long as they can. And we visit them every winter weekend. Neither ski anymore, but they still love the area and especially the animals.
 
Good morning! Happy Thursday! More heat in this area today, hope your weather is more comfortable. Flooring repairs, real estate issues, parents getting ready to move, and all the other stuff that arises comes to the Coffee Cart for chat, support, and camaraderie, over tea, coffee, and assorted muffins. The tea water is hot, coffee is freshbrewed, and muffins nicely warm. All is ready, all are welcome. Come on in, have a muffin and a drink, and share your thoughts!

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Does a mortal know when its time to get out if they chose to know nothing ... especially when it appears out of nowhere? All for nothing ... as accrued wholly spot ... hairy as Haro*d (* being a silent light out there in the darkness)! Who harks? No one is likely ... and thus the turn around as we go about what's norm; being a bit dizzied by the hole thing ... it is up there if you observe at night ... yet it twinkles! What's with that? Did Zorba observe that in his phishing? (a mental expedition)

Hoo dahth unque it ... so kush and no more worries, cares and bother while in the 100 Acre wood ... so much more Po' when put to word in the far east that's Tau ... so we Stow it ... where no observes ... consequences?

Is there reason for consequences? Recently few mulled through ide ... no time for processes like this when everything is industrial quality and mechanical ... even intelligence ... fabricated (all by 3 furies, a far off)

This goes round as if a square triangulated ... Robert Service circled that one as McGee! All for the warming ...
 
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We have had a few more moderate days here but the heat plans to return today.

I have started crocheting a blanket with a simple, familiar pattern. A golden oldie! I experimented with a couple of other patterns but decided to stick with the tried and true.

Also thinking about tackling the Book of Acts for Snoopy's forum. Will see about that one.
 
I haven't seen anything moderate: physically, mentally or a spirited since recollection all went to elle ... that's be Sophia who gathered complexes!

There's a myth hidden there ... Gnostic eh! Not that tacky ... like the gogue placed on the horse ... a type of pedagogue? Controls the flighty urge ...

Mercurial? There heh was up and gone ... few grasped ... particularly those that said they knew it all! Missed ique or eek? Noe arked ... flat out!
 
Last night, I said to my spouse, I think I'll put on my pj's. He said "can you wait 2 minutes?" "Why" I asked

He said: "coz then it will at least be 6 o'clock"

Haha, advantage of being a grandma is catching up on sleep when they go home.

Fell asleep at 7, woke up at 5
 
Redbaron said:
Good morning! Happy Thursday! More heat in this area today, hope your weather is more comfortable. Flooring repairs, real estate issues, parents getting ready to move, and all the other stuff that arises comes to the Coffee Cart for chat, support, and camaraderie, over tea, coffee, and assorted muffins. The tea water is hot, coffee is freshbrewed, and muffins nicely warm. All is ready, all are welcome. Come on in, have a muffin and a drink, and share your thoughts!

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We're under another heatwave warning, Redbaron. Temperatures today we're up to 34°C
 
Is it evil to step out of a hard, confining situation when trying to find virtue if you sense you are surrounded by a crock?

It is like crossing a thin red line as may be referred to by some celebrities and a lot of nemesis that are lesser in stature ... thus we are delegated to the downs ... by those wishing to rise! In some terms these are identified as micro blasts ... unless trained ... you do not see them coming! They may come like a bad winter in southern states when ignoring surrounding conditions that are mostly autonomous ... alone in their field?

Imagine a character representation believing they can do it all alone ... thus testing stages for demo s ... bad personalities to those believing they have the point but off on a tangent ... wandering potencies?

These can smack or be smacked ... like opioid channels there are other factors involved in a sophisticated action ...

Resolutions? That's an great time ...
 
Technical is described as an education based on the sciences ... now if science classically was observation and vision ... can blind faith get far there or just result in a concrete edifice?

Is that an eye opener or a bad state of "WOKE" for those that would rather not know the culpability of their chosen vocation ... maybe an a' vocation gone astray? It gets sophisticated and contains the complex parts on the other side of the vision ... some refer to as a vale that may be draped in fabric or just a large crevasse ... that forms between here and there without a medium to carry what's in between ...

Without proper vocabulary in this case you can loose an entire species ... no names?

Can you imagine a technical matter without adequate words ... perhaps a sophisticated Psyche working mindlessly, just all heart?

Can we argue Red Necks ... those without the head horse ... then it gains some adept ... a vaporous talent ... for ponderous expression like Zeus ...

An exponential vent?
 
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Some psychological type of personality posted on my FB Page about emotional expression ... but said nothing about these having proper clues, hints and other icons (Semites).

It was quite an entanglement process from considerable distance mentally ... so much unclear and clouded because of brevity ... like Claire in Silence of the Lamb ... I'm told many folk will not read it because of the in head conflict!

Should we learn to face it because there is chance that life is to get a lot more violent, etc. because of lacking essences ... driving some to wish to escape because of tension related disorder! The orders are certainly skewed ... I see nothing straight to a place loaded with spheres ... contrary to what we're told by numbed monarchies that the word says we didn't need in the initiation --- Samuel to Eli?

This really messes up some believers in how the items layered out ... stacked beauties? There's a potential myth ...
 
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I'm excited to be going out for dinner with two friends tonight. The three of us don't get together often as we would like, and it is always wonderful when we do. After dinner, we're headed to see Jesus Christ Superstar at the local theatre, part of the Drayton chain. Reviews have been good, but, to be honest, it wouldn't matter unless it was terrible, as I will be hearing the album in my head from my teen years, and so will one of the others going.

 
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