Yeah, that's interesting. My middle brother and I differ to some degree on faith matters. He is Christian Alliance and was quite conservative by UCCan standards before he left for that church. E.g. he was the only family member to oppose gay ordination in 1988. OTOH, he leans more liberal politically, just not as a far to the left and me and my union lawyer cousin (who has been NDP supporter forever). Not sure if he is still as socially conservative as he was back then. We just don't discuss those issues these days.
plus what KaytheCurler wrote
Fascinating
My family for most of my life (and my extended family on both sides) haven't been "don talk aboot certain schtuff"
So when I have hoid aboot that from some peeps it has been theoretical and "huh. ty for telling me that". another experience to add to the experience box
This Christmas I have had a weird experience with my bro. He seems reluctant aboot Christmas and the Christ aspect as well so I asked him is it because our mom died? He said new things to me (my bro used to be Mr. Christmas. Put the lights up. Decorate the tree. Clamber everywhere. Villages):
...Saying Merry Christmas can be bad because not everyone believes in Christmas
AND
Christian Churches have done so much horrific harm around the world
This is all new coming from him
And what KaytheCurler wrote on bringing up antigay etc peeps
I don't think you brought that up
The world is quite crazy atm lol
There are wonderful amazing good things going on (check oot Mendalla's thread) but also very borky things (like the switch in USA between usually Liberal and Conservative things, the spread of Corporate milquetoast culture to our culture, hatred of homeless by Liberals and Progressives as well and so forth, loss of a shared reality in USA and Canada now)
We don't choose what to believe
(we can intentionally expose ourselves to different views and "we" may change our belief)
Our political worldview I think is genetic
What we do as parents is to love for and care for our kids...
This is my first Christmas outside of the constant grief...I can intentionally engage with people...even polar bear swim twice with my bro...
There is this amazing woman here, D, who owns this winter and camping shop...she is a hoot...talks a lot...good sense of humour...offered us wine on Christmas eve (her tradition)...yesterday I visited to see if she survived her debauch...i touched her forehead and said she was running a temp of 10 Jesuses..the Christmas Spirit is alive!
Bless you all
To bits