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I have had an inner ear infection and vertigo.

I haven't been posting because typing makes me dizzy.

But least I have an excuse for typos.

thinking of you Nancy.
 
Get well crazyheart.
My doctor's visit today was excellent. He is very pleased with my HA1c- my 3 month blood sugars. He said we might talk about stopping metformin next visit. I said maybe just cutting back. So upping the exercise and decreasing calories (with weight loss) and limiting sugars and carbs is working well for me.
 
It's amazing how easily banks can lose track of large sums of money. Morning/early afternoon didn't really go as planned for me.
 
Crazyheart, hope you feel better soon. A decongestant might help, but make sure it doesn't interfere with the antibiotic. Apparently that's an issue with some and no one bothered to give that info to me for quite some time!
 
Decongestants and antihistamines can play havoc with hormones and cholesterol derivatives ...

Many of fixed doctrine can not relate with the moving nature of endocrine preliminaries ...

Thus it is best to not talk about them ... or do a cover-up as with a magi car pet ... poon Tang? Perhaps a fiery chariot will cause moving experience ...
 
Father's Day is especially hard this year for me. My Dad is alive, but, somethings that he has been doing/saying for a few years came to a boil, and I am having to deal with it. I am the person who is able to put things behind me, and focus on the current and relationships. I wonder how much easier it would be to walk away, like others have done, and just break the relationships.

If I was more like him, I would just disown and walk away, but, I am more like my Mom, look to the heart, seek relationship, forgive slights.
 
Pinga, I'm sorry for your struggle to maintain a relationship with your father. It must be draining on you.

My father has been dead for many years now - but I was only of those who walked away, ignoring him as he had ignored me during the years Mom was dying, and after she died. My sisters tried to get through to him and maintain some type of relationship and cried at his funeral. I don't know whether they or I choose the harder path - I know I felt like an orphan.
 
There are some people who work at destroying relationships it seems. Someone tries to be nice to them, and at the slightest perceived slight, they bring up old hurts. In a conversation yesterday, the individual said "how are you", the response, very grumpily, meanly "Very bad, I'm talking to you". Given the call content, and given the welcoming behaviour of the other person on the phone, it was especially cruel. It makes it difficult to be the person who is the facilitator or go-between. Now, this was a call that was demanded to be done by my Dad, lol, can you imagine if the person had called out of the blue. Anyhow....though there are attempts at building relationships, the reality is there are key behaviours which will either block or damage. We can hope and work. Unlikely to happen.
 
sounds like lots of old hurts Pinga and an ingrained way of dealing with it.. If someone asked me to call and then said that to me I'd be very hurt and likely not continue the conversation or call again- although I may say back "Excuse me-you asked me to call? Why? so you could could be unpleasant to me?
 
Yup, so...hard. The one injured, the other having no clue, and then denying they said it. (umm, yes, you did). Alas, nothing new. Take action out of anger, then deny, deny, deny. Thankful it is not my way of being.
 
Doctor change for me again. *sigh* this is 1 clinic change due to a doctor moving followed by losing my GP 4 times now. I think it averages out to 1 change/year.
I've set up 3 meet and greets this time. Never seen any of the doctors before as a walkin or appointment where I couldn't get into see my own.
 
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