I'm Not Gay But.....

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Oh the Classic

One of my fav postmodern communist SJWs

Returning you to your scheduled reality

#MutualAid
#BeNotAfraid
#SystemicWhimsey
#JoyPrivilege
 
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Go forth, fellow convivial sentients.

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#MutualAid
#BeNotAfraid
#SystemicWhimsey
#JoyPrivilege
 
Is there a butt in the ends of a barrel of wines/whines as the cooper roles it through the trees on a cold northern night ... appearing as a whisperer in the pine-NG! Uncontrollable roll-overs ... and there in the morning she still was a broad psyche ... poetic met UR-fore!

However in stoic surroundings aliens are not acceptable as potentially cyanoid or cynical to the establishment ... southern blews ... like flames off of white lightening! Gone in a blast of grumble ...
 
Luce NDs said:
Is there a butt in the ends of a barrel of wines/whines as the cooper roles it through the trees on a cold northern night ... appearing as a whisperer in the pine-NG! Uncontrollable roll-overs ... and there in the morning she still was a broad psyche ... poetic met UR-fore!

However in stoic surroundings aliens are not acceptable as potentially cyanoid or cynical to the establishment ... southern blews ... like flames off of white lightening! Gone in a blast of grumble ...
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Well among the worst are the French cyanide ass bursters

They tend to like fundies...

#MutualAid
#BeNotAfraid
#SystemicWhimsey
#JoyPrivilege
 
I'm not gay but usually happy with what I've learned ... a raug (ruff) wind from LGK's old standards on pneumas ... those that deny mental refreshment ... lost it! Thus IT goes ... change is a breeze?
 
ninjafaery said:
I don't like this. Why do people have to make it clear that they are not gay when it comes up in conversation. It is usually the first thing they say. Is it so no one of the same sex hits on them? Is it embarrassing if others may consider that gay is one of the things we might be? Heaven forbid we could let just pass without comment. I really wish it wasn't a thing anymore. Still lots of work before that happens. What possible reasons are there for underscoring your orientation? I'm not hetero but......
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A rush to declare "I am not X" is a fear response to believing others have or might come to the conclusion that "I am X" It signals a concern for appearances.

To a degree, this concern is socialized and will continue to be part of socialization until norms can be reversed or eliminated. When X can be an item of contention there may be a temptation to take the side of X which offers the path of least negative consequences. Particularly in individuals socialized to be "nice" and avoid "conflict".

When we are less careful about how we might appear to others we tend to speak without such qualifications.
 
Where I remember it being important, was if based on the locale, it would have been safe to presume that I was a single lesbian, and that, in a way, was masquerading if not available. It was using my privilege as a woman to be a part of a community without really being a part of the community. Not sure if I can get the words in this medium right. Was many years ago, and the message was very directly shared, and very heartfelt by a woman who was not amused by straight women friends hanging out and partying at gay bars.
 
Pinga said:
Where I remember it being important, was if based on the locale, it would have been safe to presume that I was a single lesbian, and that, in a way, was masquerading if not available. It was using my privilege as a woman to be a part of a community without really being a part of the community. Not sure if I can get the words in this medium right. Was many years ago, and the message was very directly shared, and very heartfelt by a woman who was not amused by straight women friends hanging out and partying at gay bars.
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There seems to have been a quick and enormous culture shift among Millenials and younger people. Here where I am, they closed the one gay bar in town, but everyone went there anyway and they just moved to the undifferentiated bar down the road. It's older people that tend to have more of an issue, these days.
 
Gay Bars tend to be drinking establishments that sad and deprived singers avoid ... as they despise happiness in the paradigm!

Thus darker establishments for Honk'n Angels ... Black Swan Theory ...
 
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