Mendalla
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This piece of it is interesting to me. It was not the host's first inclination to invite this group of people - they were the second choice when others on the guest list failed to accept the invitation & angered the host. It is important to have his table full (why?) - so he casts his net wider, wanting to fill the seats. We don't really know his motivation for doing so - could be so many reasons. I draw some comparison to the approach some churches have to filling their pews (and their coffers) today - the affluent are often first on the list, and perhaps only when they decline do we open our invitation more broadly.
The problem in both cases is that the poor, etc. rarely have something to offer back. Too often, these sorts of invitations are self-serving. For instance, the host may have been using the dinner to puff up his social status and do some networking so he didn't see any value in people who weren't socially important or well-connected. In the case of a church, of course, it's more about money and trying to bring in "big givers".