I agree that the church should not be involved in heaping shame and guilt on those who are born with same-sex desires. We are to Love others as God has first loved us.
John 3:17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.
As followers of Christ we are called to Love not condemn. John makes it clear that the World is condemned already. Mankind after Adam are all born into Sin and condemnation.
Romans 5:12 Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned—
After Adam all are born into sin and commit sin and need Salvation through Christ. This is the message of the Bible. Sexual sins are included in the Sin that we are born into and need cleansing from. Both the Old Testament and New Testament Scriptures affirm that Sexual sins will separate us from a right relationship with God.
1 Corinthians 6:9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[
a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
I believe and teach the Truth that all men are born into sin and need Salvation through Christ that transforms them into the image of Jesus. I am sorry that the message of Truth has been used to "shame" and "condemn" rather than to enlighten and restore. May God help us to speak the Truth in Love and reach out in Love to those caught in the bondage of Sin.
John 8:34 Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35 Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
2 Timothy 2:24 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. 25 Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.