ChemGal
One with keen eye
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I understand it's good for family to be around. I don't understand the lack of care if they can't be there constantly though. My Mom feels like she needs to be there , awake all night to ensure care. Also it seems like what they require consent for vs what they will force on people is all about the convenience to the staff, and doesn't appear to be about patient care.@ChemGal , I spent a fair bit of time with Dad when he was in crisis. Slept in the hospital room even. My sister came & helped. My brother took shifts. Staff was great. Volunteers were great. "Walking" volunteers were great. They didn't know him. I did. I could interpret, see what was normal, provide continuity.
I do think the family being active is a good thing, and if you are able, is something you do.
As he got healthier, then I started to withdraw more.