Mendalla
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You really hit a crucial nail on the head with your words GordW.
I know of an example that addresses that type of situation. Woman in her 90's. Been lost in dementia for twenty years and suffering from arthritis and various other debilitating ailments. Was diagnosed with breast cancer and the nursing home asked for directions for her treatment. The family chose "Send her to the city for whatever it takes to beat this". The old lady had to be heavily drugged to travel, stayed heavily drugged through the necessary testing. She underwent surgery, developed an infection in her wound and then got pneumonia. She suffered greatly until she finally died.
In my view (and I suspect, yours) it would have been kinder to leave her in some sort of peace to die in place. Nothing worthwhile could come out of upsetting a confused patient in that manner. I believe life is very precious but don't see prolonging it when there is n hope for recovery and comfort.
We had Dad on a "comfort only" order. Basically, if he goes, let him go. Which they and we did. I don't get why someone would bother treating a person who was on the way out anyhow. Does it matter that the cancer gets them before whatever else they may have going on?
