Mendalla
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And the problem is you have no firm set of beliefs to market. You're not complete dicks about what you believe. That's good, but it hurts you because your message is not simple.
Make no mistake, you would benefit numbers-wise from a more strict faith. You'd just be less tolerable to everyone else.
Tough call.
Exactly. It's a smaller version of the UU evangelism problem: If you don't have a firm set of doctrines, what exactly are you selling? Offering freedom of belief and respect for everyone's beliefs seems to only carry with certain subsets of the population, mostly educated, intellectual sorts and/or those who have been put off by the beliefs of other churches. Many people who are actively looking for a church are looking for one that offers answers. If your focus is on helping people find their own answers, rather than spoon-feeding them your answers or providing a set of simple answers that they can measure against their own beliefs, it can be a surprisingly tough sell.