Waterfall said:
This is where I become a tad confused. God offers us His grace and we in turn offer grace to others, but how do we extend that grace within our communities without creating rules or laws that reflect that grace?
Personally I think the confusion is in understanding that grace is "offered" rather than grace is "given". When we emphasize grace is offered we render grace incomplete and then go about emphasizing "acceptance" as being part of grace.
When we construct that relationship we have constructed a give to get relationship and the emphasis is less on what God gives and more on what we accept. Why is that problematic? It is problematic because we then propose methods to acquire grace and turn it into a reward for doing the right thing rather than a gift from God which none of us could ever earn. It is a short walk from thinking we have earned forgiveness to believing we can dictate how God gives it to others and what the other must do to force God to give it. Here is where believing, saying and doing the right things ultimately become more important than grace itself.
Grace is freely given to me no matter what I may think of it or do with it. Which at the very least keeps me humble knowing that I wasn't owed anything by God and reminds me that I cannot compel from others what I was unprepared to give myself.
The two human options, with respect to the flow of God's grace are to be a dam (and try and hold grace back) or be a conduit and allow grace to flow. As we consider this we should bear in mind that dams must release water that is held back or the water being held back will overflow the dam and find its way to where it was intended to go. Dams, at best, delay the free flow of grace, they can never stop it forever.
When we construct rules and regulations we are building dams and only allowing grace to flow in limited and controlled amounts. It may be true that the limited amounts of grace which slip through carefully built walls does not satisfy entirely the world outside the walls. Thank God for rain in that case eh? What we would hold back by weight of rule God sends in ways and forms beyond our ability to limit.
And the rest of the world, knowing we have more grace at our disposal than we appear willing to share rightly goes elsewhere to find a free and more reliable source.
Waterfall said:
Otherwise wouldn't we just assume somebody else is doing it? How do we build communities or create God's kingdom without having a plan to follow?
Well communities and kingdoms don't need to hoard resources that are abundant and sometimes the rules are in place to remind us of what ought to be conserved and what should be shared liberally.
As far as grace is concerned it comes from God and while it may be limited season by season God is free to send as much or as little to us for our stewardship. We can either be like the servant in the parable who is fearful and buries what is given or, we can be like the two who decided to work with what they were given and ultimately realized a return on the investment. Some of the resources that are placed in a Church's hands are greatly limited and must be stewarded accordingly. It is not my experience that grace is one of those resources.