I had absolutely no relationship with my earthly father. When I was very young I was told he had died when I was a baby. Later I was told he had abandoned my mother when she was pregnant. Whatever happened, I never met him and have never had any contact with him. However, for me that non-existent relationship with my earthly father does not hinder my understanding of God as "Father." In fact, it enriches it. I see in God what fatherhood should be. From a personal point of view, the image of God as Father is a rich one. In my ministry, however, I rarely use the term "Father" to refer to God, because I understand that it is alienating to some people for deeply personal reasons. For the same reason, I don't use the term "Mother" for God. And, for the most part, I attempt to avoid pronouns for God. There are plenty of meaningful adjectives and names that work for God.