An article "The church is killing its gay kids"

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Why can't people let God say that? Why are the loudest mouthpieces for God so often the biggest jerks God could find? Is that a coincidence? Does God assemble a hit squad from the lowest depths of society, like the Mafia does, or are bigoted idiots just bigoted idiots?
 
I agree its an excellent question, im not discounting that , im pointing out that both sides need to surrender the issue
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thus the importance of not making laws that will make any thoughts or feelings or ideas illegal (like homosexuality being considered a sin or not believing in a particular g_d), giving people the freedom & opportunity to live the lives, make money, etc as they want to -- then, of course, there comes the problem of government-supported programs conflicting with people's beliefs...cf. planned parenthood

and so it goes
 
I'll answer first. I could not exist in a community that looked down on my wife and I and called us "breeders" or thought less of us or went out of their way to tell us we were going to be tortured. I'd get the hell out of that community.

Same.

In many places in the past my yobo and I would be treated horribly for daring to be in a bi-cultural marriage. As if our love for one another is anyone's business but our own.

chansen said:
And really, that's why I recommend GBLTQ people to walk away from Christianity and Christian communities. More than anyone else, I think they have the most to gain from such a move.

Okay. Yet what are GBLTQ people to do who find that they just so happen to have Christian beliefs?
 
You don't want to "surrender" the issue. You want the other side to stop kicking up such a fuss about your side literally harrassing and preventing the GBLTQ side from living their lives and gaining the rights and respect they seek. You want them to surrender, so you can keep doing what you do. That's not both sides surrendering.

hmmm, you assuming that to me personally or the church ?


And so I go back to my original question, which I have to admit, I also think is a good one.

"Could you live and work within a community that frowned upon your heterosexual relationship and refused to marry you or respect your relationship?"

whos refusing to marry same sex,? not me , they have full right in my opinion to marry if they wish too , there are also christian churches that will marry them.

the issue will never be resolved so both sides need to surrender
 
Okay. Yet what are GBLTQ people to do who find that they just so happen to have Christian beliefs?

Personally, based on what I've seen so far of Christians, who are varied enough, I think, to be called different religions in their own sense (eg. some Christians believe the bibble is literature and has been used by the Church for power & control & money, some Christians believe that Christ was just a man, some Christians believe that killing other people is ok if g_d tells them to, etc etc etc), that a GLBTQRSTLNEMP3withasideofmayo people who just happen to have Christian beliefs have to do the hard thing and come to realize that they, like all other Christians, are different from other Christians?

They are all automatically part of the same tribe, Humanity

But aren't all automatically part of the same tribe, Christianity

And these people, well, anyone who tries to acknowledge anything similar to this will have a tough time at it because society (social norms, etc) will always be trying to get them to conform, to be a part of us, join us...

No wonder people like Elon Musk have created their own school for their kids :3
 
and what do you mean by "surrender" blackbelt???
Would you please expand on that?
Thanks
Rita
 
and what do you mean by "surrender" blackbelt???
Would you please expand on that?
Thanks
Rita

surrender, let it go, give it to God, stop pushing the issue, what ever term one wants to give it, pushing the issue im theologically right and your wrong says more about one trusting in self than trusting God, a mature christian who Knows the Spirit Trusts the Spirit and

Romans 14

a tremendously mature response to difference of opinion
 
Personally, based on what I've seen so far of Christians, who are varied enough, I think, to be called different religions in their own sense (eg. some Christians believe the bibble is literature and has been used by the Church for power & control & money, some Christians believe that Christ was just a man, some Christians believe that killing other people is ok if g_d tells them to, etc etc etc), that a GLBTQRSTLNEMP3withasideofmayo people who just happen to have Christian beliefs have to do the hard thing and come to realize that they, like all other Christians, are different from other Christians?

They are all automatically part of the same tribe, Humanity

But aren't all automatically part of the same tribe, Christianity

And these people, well, anyone who tries to acknowledge anything similar to this will have a tough time at it because society (social norms, etc) will always be trying to get them to conform, to be a part of us, join us...

No wonder people like Elon Musk have created their own school for their kids :3

Inanna, @chansen suggested that LGBTQ people should get out of the churches. When I posted my question, I was thinking of Hebrews 10:24-25, "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near" (ESV). How can LGBTQ people get out of the churches if they honestly believe they are called to keep gathering with other Christians?
 
surrender, let it go, give it to God, stop pushing the issue, what ever term one wants to give it, pushing the issue im theologically right and your wrong says more about one trusting in self than trusting God, a mature christian who Knows the Spirit Trusts the Spirit and

Romans 14
A very good start :)
 
Inanna, @chansen suggested that LGBTQ people should get out of the churches. When I posted my question, I was thinking of Hebrews 10:24-25, "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near" (ESV). How can LGBTQ people get out of the churches if they honestly believe they are called to keep gathering with other Christians?
that's a good point (y)
 
Many people who think it's a sin would say it is one because it's outside of God's created order.

And that would be an extraordinarily inaccurate statement, as it's a very common feature in other animal populations. Unless one is attempting o argue that Adam's sin caused same sex attraction in penguins. Which is silly.

I've often wondered why LGBTQ people remain Christians. Strikes me as tremendously forgiving of them; similarly with aboriginal people, actually.
 
I've asked several of my friends. They tell me that the God-urge is stronger than their pain and that Christianity is culturally familiar to them.
 
And that would be an extraordinarily inaccurate statement, as it's a very common feature in other animal populations. Unless one is attempting o argue that Adam's sin caused same sex attraction in penguins. Which is silly.

I've often wondered why LGBTQ people remain Christians. Strikes me as tremendously forgiving of them; similarly with aboriginal people, actually.
It doesn't matter if its inaccurate according to your BS** (and witness all the sorts of mental gymnastics* -- PIKE!-- people have to go through to come to terms with 'loving g_d' & dying kittens in concrete)
I asked a question which was asking what different people thought was the purpose of homosexuality being a sin
Pr Jae came up with a possible answer (which is a start -- i really don't know what possibilites can come under 'outside of g_d's order' -- like you wrote above, that statement contradicts actual world events...)

* similar to the mental gymnastics some people go through while believing in naturalism & they try to explain consciousness...

**in fact, i guess it can be said that sombunall of our beliefs consist of trying to 'tie together into a cohesive whole' the outliers, the bits that don't fit our beliefs, trying to take that square peg and make it fit into the round hole?
 
Hi airclean33 your quote ---- GOD how ever will not except the world in sin.---You are right there ---no person with sin can get into heaven ---Heaven is a Holy place -----

Jesus died to free us from sin -----so your quote ----How do you get around that? ----We have to accept Jesus ---be Born Again and we become Holy and are heaven bound by Grace through Faith --all sins are forgiven for the rest of our life ------Born Again people are never judged on their sins after we die -----

Jesus never questioned or judged the woman caught in adultery -----he said to her go and sin no more ------he did not judge her as Jesus is aware of all our weaknesses and her sin nature -----He didn't say---- if you don't follow me and stop sleep with men you will go to a place called Hell ---

Jesus showed unconditional Love to this woman ------Ministers should be preaching Grace to all -----and be Christ like as should all Born Again people ----it is not our place to judge ---We are to accept all people and love them unconditionally -----If they are aware of God's Grace and what this Grace provides and they are informed as to what God says if they reject His Son then it is up to them to accept God's gift or reject it ------being gay has nothing to do with Preaching and making all people aware of God's Word ---- People who are gay --straight ---transgender ----murders ----etc ----are first God's creation and our fellow human being --- and if God wants His Child by adoption to speak to one of these people the Holy Spirit will direct us and there will be success in our effort ----God's wants all people in Heaven unfortunately all people don't want to go to Heaven -----

I believe ignorance in Preaching is a big Problem -----Ministers are allowed to preach without the Holy Spirit and for me this is a big Problem ------and most people have cobwebs on their Bibles ----to busy for God time but big on condemning Him and His Word ---

God Bless Brother
 
...People who are gay --straight ---transgender ----murders ----etc ----are first God's creation and our fellow human being ---...


This is part of the problem. To just lump orientation, gender identification and possibly the gravest sin one can practically accomplish - the taking of another human's life - all together, as if "murder" was a common problem for most humans...
 
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