Seeler
Well-Known Member
What you believe and what happens to be reality are quite different.
Sorry Rita - usually I agree with you but I have to take exception here.
While person A might have a lot of influence on person B's decision to end his life, only person B makes that final decision.
Many years ago my (then) teenage daughter broke up with the college freshman she had dated for a few months. A few nights later he showed up at our door just after we went to bed - crying, telling her that he couldn't live without her, and that he had taken pills from his mother's medicine cabinet. I quickly drove him to the nearest hospital, my daughter holding him as he sobbed and moaned. As we sat in the waiting room I remember telling my daughter "This was NOT your fault. He made this decision on his own. It is NOT your fault." Fortunately the pills, in the quantities he took were not nearly enough to be fatal. He was kept in the hospital over night and released. But while we sat together in the waiting room, I remember a hospital worker coming out to talk to my daughter. She asked a few questions and then told my daughter the same thing. "This was not your fault."
Yes, we do hear of bullying and situations where a person is driven to suicide, but generally it is not the fault of any one person. The final decision rests with the person taking the final step.