sure,,,, according to scripture, mans heart is deceitful, we see this acting out in all areas of life not just sex , so for me i look to an objective source to guide me that is external to my heats feelings/desires , this objectivity is Christ/God and His word, so regardless of what i feel, i choose to accept the words of scripture , which is not so good for my heart cuz that makes me not just a sinner but a big sinner . So all I Truly have is His Grace and work on the cross, the rest of the legalities of scripture , I trust that God has dealt with it through Christ, for me and for you.
Now having said that and living currently in a autonomous culture & bout you and I having the same one Father , would you give me the same autonomy I give you or will you revert to an heteronomous culture as soon as you disagree with my answer and dictate for me what I should or must believe as-well ?