(5) JESUS TREATS A GENTILE WOMAN AS A MODEL OF PERSEVERING FAITH, DESPITE OBSTACLES (Matthew 15 :23-28)):
When confronted by this Greek (Syro-Phoenician) woman's frantic request that Jesus heal her daughter, Jesus initially ignores her, "But He did not answer her at all." Jesus is deliberately acting out the standard Jewish male attitude that a man should speak as little as possible to a woman in public.
This is just fine with the disciples, who urge Him to send her away to get rid of the annoyance. Then Jesus further discourages her by noting, "I am sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel." When the woman persists with her nagging request, Jesus plays to the stereotype that Jews must maintain a strict separation from Gentiles by responding, "It's not fair to take the children's bread and give it to the dggs." "Dogs" is a slang derogatory Jewish expression for "Gentiles." So much for a woke Jesus! But the woman's faith in Jesus' healing power remains strong and she perseveres by responding in a self-effacing, witty manner, "Yes, but even dogs get the crumbs fhat fall from their master's table."
We now realize that Jesus has just been testing this woman's faith to see if she will see through His role-playing. After all, He is not in Jewish territory; He is in the Syrian region of Tyre and Sidon to minister to the Gentiles there. Thus unmasked, Jesus is gladly bested in His playful rhetorical skirmish with the woman and replies, "Great is your faith! Let it be done to you just as you wish." This praise elevates a Gentile woman to the lofty status as a model of persevering faith. Here Jesus is also making a point He repeatedly makes elsewhere, that when God seems indifferent to your petitions, persevere in prayer until you receive an answer (see e. g. Luke 11:8; 18:4-5).