Mendalla said:
Every party needs a pooper. Maybe you'd feel more at home in this thread:
Poop Cafe
Mendalla said:
If God as Father is too patriarchal and ties God to a gendered human image and God the Creator is too impersonal, what is the middle ground.
Nicely put.
I wonder what we are allowing to define either term by the way. Our experience of one or the other or common expression of the one or the other? That probably can wait for the moment.
One of the things I have appreciated about friend Panentheism and his Process Cheese Theology (thanks EZed) is his insistence that theology, even the best theology, is an approximation. We cannot comprehend the whole of God so any image/description of God must, of necessity, fall short of perfectly summarizing God.
Forcing any one image to hold more of God than it was ever intended to contain will eventually destroy the container or result in much spillage. Work at it long and hard enough and you may accomplish both damage to the container and much spillage. It may be why the best theology requires more room to explain and define unless one finds the right words that expand in just the right ways to capture more than we typically allow language express.
Father/Mother language ties us to the idea that God is personal and relatable. Our experience with mothers and fathers may not make such language an endearment when applied to God. My father, for example, is an alcoholic who decided the bottle was more important to him than family. Must I, because of his failings, assume that God as Father is just as much a drunk as my father was? Am I, because of who my father was, failing to be a father to my children because I have demonstrated more love to them than I have alcohol? Are the questions so ridiculous that they didn't even need to be asked? And if I decide to address God as Mother do I not run into similar issues? Did my mother not marry my father the alcoholic, demonstrating that she either could not see the problem or she thought she would be able to correct it? And after my father is out of the picture my mother hooks up with yet another alcoholic who is far more prone to violence? Is God as Mother just as content to provide a dysfunctional and at times dangerous home for her children? If those questions aren't as ridiculous as the ones asked about using my father as a template for God as father then I clearly do not understand what is meant by the word ridiculous.
Or, if I start with the definitions of mother and father do I not find that God is better at both than my mother and father combined? Is that problematic?
Some people have a hard time with God as person and much prefer God to be something less personable. I suspect that is to alleviate the guilt of disappointing a person. How does one disappoint a force of an energy?
And so economic Trinities were brought forward. Where God is far less a person than God is a notion. God creates, redeems and sustains because none of that is personal I guess.
Mendalla said:
What is the image of God that defines God as a creator/parent figure? God the mother simply reverses God the Father and creates similar issues (ties God to a specific human, gendered image) so that can't be it.
I doubt that there is any one image which is "The" image. I suspect we are forced with a veritable buffet of "an" images which we combine into a complex and still incomplete image we dare to say is "The" image. It is doubtful we do that loudly and with a great deal of confidence. And those who do, are probably the people we should listen less to because they clearly do not believe there is anything of God beyond their ability to see and comprehend.
Their too small God cannot begin to satisfy.
Mendalla said:
Or do we need to do a sort of quantum thing and say that God is both Mother and Father with us seeing the image that we most need to relate to at any given time?
I expect this is the way most travelled in the history of God. Otherwise God would not have so many titles and descriptors applied to God. Master of the Universe, Creator of Sea and Sky, the Lord of hosts, Mighty God, Everlasting, Rock and so on and so on.
It is probably well near time that we developed a bit of maturity and realized that there will be no one name and no one qualifier that will speak identically to all people. So you might have a hard time with Master or Lord. So what? I don't and that is how I address God. I might have a problem with however you choose to identify God. So what? If it is what works for you then go for it. I can have a relationship with God even if yours is dramatically different and if your relationship with God suffers just because you can't control how I address God your biggest problem is not your relationship with God but you desire to control me.