Now, back on topic. If God as Father is too patriarchal and ties God to a gendered human image and God the Creator is too impersonal, what is the middle ground. What is the image of God that defines God as a creator/parent figure? God the mother simply reverses God the Father and creates similar issues (ties God to a specific human, gendered image) so that can't be it.
Or do we need to do a sort of quantum thing and say that God is both Mother and Father with us seeing the image that we most need to relate to at any given time?
As far as I'm concerned, "God the Father" and "God the Creator" are not the same, but two different concepts. It all goes down to this impossible to grasp concept called "Trinity". To me, "God the Creator" refers to the creation itself: the fact God is at the basis of all beings (and yes, in a way totally compatible with the scientific theory on evolution). On the other hand, "God the Father" highlights that he (she?) is the one making the rules and even guiding me a bit like my parents did: with some rules, guidance and suggestions, and sometimes discipline.
So yes, God created the world, redeemed us (mostly by sending his Son, but the Son is not the only one who redeems us), and also comforts and guides us (but it's not exclusively a "Holy Spirit" thing). Do we have three gods? No, only one. And are there really three persons? I would say the only one we have known first hand is the Son. Is he really the Son of a single-parent house (the Father)? Is the Holy Spirit really another person, like a step-mother (that's almost what we learnt in elementary school)? And on the gender front, the only one we're sure of is God the Son.
The more I reflect on Trinity, the more it seems to be an abstract concept to describe different
facets of God: creator, ruler, guide, comforter, etc.
So should we say "God the Mother"? Why not! As long as we don't mean by it that God can't be a father figure "because only mothers can really be caring" (i.e. sexism of another kind), that's good.
Or should we say "God the Parent"? That would be the best non-gender-specific metaphor. Except "parent" tends to point to some distant relative.
Or should we say "God the Father and Mother"? No issue with that, except for its length. But I'm sure that some people would say that we now have God in 4 persons (Father, Mother, Son, Spirit) and that it is not right!