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Perhaps from a tangent. I was such a child. Failed school. Couldn't hold a job. Lived as an itinerant from 19 to 30. Often at the point of death without any material or spiritual resource. Just before thirty I called mum one evening. Told her my hope had run out and I was leaving. Had no idea of where I would end up. Alone and at the point of dying in the Rocky Mountains I reached my turn around point. At thirty I began a new life. Which has led me to where I now am.

I say this to affirm hope. Not all who wander remain lost. Some find their way home.

One of the key elements of my recovery and return was the repeated small acts of kindness offered by strangers met along the way. Anyone paying attention will notice that much of my public speaking points to the opportunity to make a difference in the life trajectory of lost and hurting persons met along the way.

One of the saddest experiences of my later life was watching responsible members of the United Church drive lost youth from the steps of Grace Memorial in East Vancouver. These persons were sons and daughters wandered from home and into places of deep shadow. We had been doing everything in our power to provide compassionate hospitality and remedial supports. The neighbourhood and society at large treated them with disdain and contempt. I wept as police drove these youth from the door of the Church and into the streets where Robert Picton and the like were doing their dirty work. Sons and daughters of mothers and fathers driven from sanctuary and into the streets, with threat of incarceration should they return.

Seems the institutional church could make a substantial difference by being in the street and among the lost. Ready with a welcoming smile, encouraging words and material supports. While so engaged, active in pressing governments to responsible intervention in the hope of justice. The hope of no child being lost and alone in the midst of affluent excess and indifferent populations.

George

 
well I e-mailed my middle about my weekend trip to her town. I said "JT" had died. I was going to the funeral. Did they want to get together sat or Sun and I missed them.


I received an answer. That's the first direct communication in a year. So I think there may be hope.

The answer said "Sorry about JT. I am busy Sat and Sun with work and there was no notice.

My reply-yes death comes without notice Here's my number if things change.
 
Yes, Tabitha, death never comes at a convenient time - there's a notice in the paper or an unexpected phone call when you are getting ready for church. And you quickly make arrangements - or not. Sometimes you just aren't able to.
At the very least your child responded to you. She didn't ignore you. Perhaps next time ...
 
Hi,

Perhaps from a tangent. I was such a child. Failed school. Couldn't hold a job. Lived as an itinerant from 19 to 30. Often at the point of death without any material or spiritual resource. Just before thirty I called mum one evening. Told her my hope had run out and I was leaving. Had no idea of where I would end up. Alone and at the point of dying in the Rocky Mountains I reached my turn around point. At thirty I began a new life. Which has led me to where I now am.

I say this to affirm hope. Not all who wander remain lost. Some find their way home.

One of the key elements of my recovery and return was the repeated small acts of kindness offered by strangers met along the way. Anyone paying attention will notice that much of my public speaking points to the opportunity to make a difference in the life trajectory of lost and hurting persons met along the way.

One of the saddest experiences of my later life was watching responsible members of the United Church drive lost youth from the steps of Grace Memorial in East Vancouver. These persons were sons and daughters wandered from home and into places of deep shadow. We had been doing everything in our power to provide compassionate hospitality and remedial supports. The neighbourhood and society at large treated them with disdain and contempt. I wept as police drove these youth from the door of the Church and into the streets where Robert Picton and the like were doing their dirty work. Sons and daughters of mothers and fathers driven from sanctuary and into the streets, with threat of incarceration should they return.

Seems the institutional church could make a substantial difference by being in the street and among the lost. Ready with a welcoming smile, encouraging words and material supports. While so engaged, active in pressing governments to responsible intervention in the hope of justice. The hope of no child being lost and alone in the midst of affluent excess and indifferent populations.

George

Isn't there a particular note in Matthew 6:1 thereabouts on the topic of people around church doors and corners and how we should do things more to settle the deep issues of a state of mind?

Then if the psyche is non-physical ... it doesn't exist in the real world? That leaves and out for some truly into physiology ... and not accepting dark matter and energy ... unseen spirits? Thus the Shadow rests ... methuselah ... is that you? Part of old and occult things that some refer to as obtuse to ease the black shades ...

Then you can't be critically thinking about men in black if they are the powers of corruption ... right? In the real world they are more dangerous than the mindful ...
 
Ahhh ... a hopeful sign that you received a reply Tabitha! Prayers for your perseverance.
 
Real life is like that ... some time I wish imaginary was real as a virtue ... some don't ... they love to see the neighbours in pain ... god lodged in mortal sol ... or is that immortal? Tis because I'am ... I love information and foreign intellect ... it is not what we know that kills ... but what we don't know! And some strange intensity wins by a nose ...

In the Syrilliac, ancient Aramaic ... the "i" is critical to dialectic functions ... chock 'n ...
 
I hope their heart feels better too for having seen family long distant. A first step has been made, and in time hopefully more will follow apace ... thanks for letting us know.
 
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