Actually, let me add a bit about this silly new ski coaching job.
I have 20 athletes aged 14-15. I have 2 co-coaches who are 17. I'm 52. It's hilarious. It would be pathetic, except I'm still faster than all of them.
We had such a good weekend. I set a course for the first time in 25 years (it rocked), I ran the session this morning and introduced some of the drills that Mikaela Shiffrin used to do when she was young, and most importantly, I finally learned all the names of my 20 athletes. And holy crap, how they responded. We've got them skiing so much better, in one weekend.
Let me take a step back. This is a private ski club. This sport is not exactly accessible to most people. I get that. I'm not in this sport because I'm particularly rich. I'm in this sport because my folks planned really well, saved, bought a building lot in the mid 80s when that was possible, built their own chalet (I helped when I was 12), and we are, to this day, surrounded by rich folk. We don't belong. But once you have your place, your main expenses are utilities and property taxes, plus membership fees. When I coach, some of those fees are reduced.
We could not join and start from scratch today. Not a chance.
So what I have are a bunch of rather rich and entitled teenagers. The challenge for me, then, is to not just coach skiing, but also a bit of life skills, like thoughtfulness and empathy. And I work that in in subtle ways. Sometimes it's showing concern when an athlete falls or is hurt, as happened today. Sometimes it's just showing that they can help put things away and not rely on us for everything. A lot of it is just looking them in the eyes at the end of the weekend and thanking each of them in turn for their hard work, and explaining what they did well and why I'm so proud of them. I did that a lot this afternoon, because I was proud of them. This is a much tougher sport than people think, and you need to be brave. My athletes were brave today, they tried the things we asked them to try, and they improved a lot because of it.
I can't believe I left coaching for 25 years. Why the hell did I stay away for that long?
Edit: Oh yeah, I really like racing myself. I forgot.