revsdd
Well-Known Member
Depends. Sometimes the urn is just left and placed in the grave by the cemetery workers after the family has left. Sometimes the funeral directors do it, sometimes a member of the family. On occasion I've been asked to do it. Make sure you know the plan beforehand.
My usual words are, "Eternal God, the spirit of your precious child (insert name) now dwells with you. To the ground we now commit that which remains of his/her body: earth to earth, ashes to ashes and dust to dust, in sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life, through Jesus Christ our Lord. May God bless him/her and keep him/her. May God look upon him/her with kindness. May God be gracious to him/her and grant him/her peace, both now and forever through all eternity. Amen."
My usual words are, "Eternal God, the spirit of your precious child (insert name) now dwells with you. To the ground we now commit that which remains of his/her body: earth to earth, ashes to ashes and dust to dust, in sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life, through Jesus Christ our Lord. May God bless him/her and keep him/her. May God look upon him/her with kindness. May God be gracious to him/her and grant him/her peace, both now and forever through all eternity. Amen."