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Northwind said:
What a glorious day here. We've been very lazy. We just went out for a bit of shopping including Costco. My feet are now up.

1 more round (3 weekly treatments) of this drug. I see the oncologist after that then start the next drug. I must remember that the side effects (fatigue, sore fingers) are signs the treatment is doing something.....
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You're handling this all impressively well, @Northwind! (y):)

I'm curious as to why the treatment can cause sore fingers. Do you know why?

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Kimmio Laughterlove said:
I'm curious as to why the treatment can cause sore fingers. Do you know why?
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The chemo also kills healthy cells temporarily. That's why people lose their hair. I'm in a couple of FB support groups. someone suggested it has affected my nail beds. They feel like they've been slammed in a door. Bruised and sore. There is redness under the nails. Sounds like it will get better when I'm done this drug. Plus, I've had a rash on the backs of my hands. It's gotten better thanks to corticosteroid and Glaxal Base. I see the doctor on Wednesday and will ask her about it. 20190526_130602.jpg
 
OH MY! Mom does NOT want to be there and she did NOT want to make any decisions that needed to be made to admit her and I was pretty much BAWLING for 2 hours, and had to lie down on her bed for most of that, because I was not feeling well enough to deal with anything! This is supposed to be temporary until a bed opens in the nursing home down the block from the hospital.

On the other hand...they asked her a bunch of questions to find out how healthy she is mentally, emotionally, and physically - after she answered them all, I told her she was healthier than I am!!!!
 
BethAnne said:
OH MY! Mom does NOT want to be there and she did NOT want to make any decisions that needed to be made to admit her and I was pretty much BAWLING for 2 hours, and had to lie down on her bed for most of that, because I was not feeling well enough to deal with anything! This is supposed to be temporary until a bed opens in the nursing home down the block from the hospital.

On the other hand...they asked her a bunch of questions to find out how healthy she is mentally, emotionally, and physically - after she answered them all, I told her she was healthier than I am!!!!
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BethAnne, a lot of hospitals have pastoral services, maybe talking to someone would make you feel better and they could help with solutions?
Hugs.....rough day for sure.
 
Waterfall said:
BethAnne, a lot of hospitals have pastoral services, maybe talking to someone would make you feel better and they could help with solutions?
Hugs.....rough day for sure.
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Thanks...I vented to the gal who drove me in so feel better that way...also this would be easier if sis would talk to me so I knew exactly what was going on...at least the staff member we were dealing with today was nice and helpful and was willing to accommodate some of my suggestions to help mom feel more in control of the situation so she would actually make decisions.
 
bethanne, my child - I have sent your column - but am not absolutely confident I sent it propery. Please let me know if it has 0r has not arrived.
Your faithful servant.graeme
 
Mom literally has been shriveling...she's lost almost 20 pounds since she went in Feb. 27th :( She's only 86 lbs now.
 
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