Room For All

[chansen]

I'm simultaneously parenting my son and my mother, who does some downright dangerous things. It's frustrating when she's using a fireplace with paper strewn around, and when she gets distracted sightseeing while driving. The sorts of things you associate with people who are young and don't know better. And she looks at me like I don't know what I'm talking about because she has never burned down the house and has never hit, say, a bridge. But I had to grab the wheel to avoid the bridge. Which didn't matter to her, because did you see that house next to the bridge? They painted it. She doesn't like the new colour. Besides, she wasn't close to the guardrail.

It is a challenge to stay calm. I'm doing better, and I am sure to compliment her on things she does to help the family. But she also has to understand she needs to be responsible with fire, and as for driving, as mentioned, they aren't doing that right now.

 

[paradox3]

Not hard to see why it's called being in the sandwich generation.

 

[Nancy]

Oh boy. My mom was child like in some ways near the end. My younger sister was more the parent while I let mom be. No real comparison though @chansen because there was no danger factor involved.

 

[chansen]

The real problem, as I see it, is trying to teach someone whose cognitive skills are improving daily, vs. teaching someone who used to know and whose cognitive skills are declining. You might get a point across one day, and the next week need to be shown all over again. And then you're told that you never showed them last week and it's your memory that's fading.

Augh.

Teaching a child is so rewarding because they take that new knowledge and run with it. Teaching your own elderly parent is the definition of Sisyphean - rolling a rock up a hill, only to watch it roll back down, and being cursed to do it over and over.

 

[paradox3]

Cognitive decline is a bitch. I imagine it's even worse with a spouse than a parent..

 

[Luce NDs]

There is this suggesting to teach God's offspring ...

Can you imagine rising from that sort of deep rest that god's take? Like some are physically overcome and their other side ... in the myth the infinite arose among a vast stretch where intelligence resides, with Ur old queen of the night ... Sophia? She is known by so many other names ...

Will the rich put themselves out to assist ... or do they have an alternate agenda? Consider the speculation of taxes on the rich ... an observation of Erasmus on the nature of monarchial belief in their private businesses of extraction ...

What? The rich having to pay ... only when the entire thing collapses ... and they can't see it for some blind quality ... it is depressing and causes a soul to be drawn through a point ... camel's needle? There is an iCON there ...

What is a Con vs a Pro ... for humanity or against? Thus inhumanity has a place to reside ... and I say it is time for hymn to go ... and the whine is cranked out ...

 

[chansen]

Cognitive decline is a bitch. I imagine it's even worse with a spouse than a parent..

That's an excellent point. My mother deals with my dad's decline by saying, "He just needs to brighten up." As if a cup of coffee would do the trick.

 

[Luce NDs]

Cognitive decline is a bitch. I imagine it's even worse with a spouse than a parent..

Maga enigma when the entire surround denies the total of prodigal nature ... ultimate waste?

The materials requiring mulling, digesting and classifying is immense ... and yet some will not hear or learn of the major enigma ... avarice ...

It happens when some spirits encounter material wealth ... thus the Golden Rule about distribution of the soul quality ... like The-O factor ... as we diminish in shame of extreme desire ... humbling as a nemesis ... I wait to escape to another dimension of exchange ... where I can unload what I've observed ... in the here and now ... a fut Ure item? Psyche expansion as alien graphic ...

Imagine a child raised sand witched between these 2 L's ... lol? The growing into olo ... a container of what essence of info was accrued? Soul gain ...

Then we are harvested ... like dark seed ... tares ... tar Cis? Core of darkness and mystery ... some 2 way pairing is suggested ... eliminating one way imbalances ... thumb on the Pan as dervish? The dislike for rational restrictions ... and going with the winds ... wayward or falling barometer ... they do the dance like the essence from out there arriving lightly ... deprived of heavy handedness ... the process of myth? Mores to look into ... lengthy myth!

 

[Luce NDs]

There are those that say it is cyclic ... it comes about ... and you get what is dished out ... so present an gentile expression ... regardless of what was received ... watch the response and you'll learn something ... literary gifts? Not hard lines ...

Standing waves ... few will grasp ... retained by the passage ... as a light at the end of a tough journey ... always more than expected ... good, bad, ugly or beautiful ... that Sunday Morning Stopper ... Never on Sunday? Believe there's more ... you haven't see anything yet ... until encountering those rejected soul stories ...

 

[Luce NDs]

Consider the situation that some people refuse to think (psyche process) and what overload (AL) that places on the balance of the processing device ... kindling core fires ...

The sad part is some people didn't receive that gift only excess destructive will ... creating that sensation of rush in the desert between the dry will and the whetted wanderer ... migrations? Alba trussed ... tied up souls in a safe place ... hidden words ... well regarding their understanding ...

Expect excavations ... the working of the earth ... as a place for the stranger to find shelter ... sensations? Earth shaking on release ... tensions of the dirt-mire ... Mere-Earth ... science of what's underfoot has to be hidden as the roue-L power didn't wish it ... consider all the illiterate royals and how they enforced their desires ... writ of law that's with obscure agenda? Thus the dig ...