Beloved, hah, we have the same issue.
My first dog was a co-cker spaniel named Taffy, when I was about 4yrs old. She was a good friend. We had her until quite late in life.
When I was on my own, I had a cat that was an alley type cat, or two. They were well cared for. The one was an outdoor cat and was disappointed when our neighbourhood lost a number of cats in the same time. Turned out someone was poisoning raccoons and other critters. I didn't have an outdoor cat again after that.
I next was gifted a Himalayan beauty named frankie. He hadn't adapted well to a new baby in the previous families household. He was gorgeous. All was well until a few years later, when I started dating my husband and he was over. The cat urinated on his clothes and items. I thought that I had it managed, then we moved into our house. My husband went away on vacation and whilst he was away, I discovered the cat had sprayed his entire record collection. I quickly rushed down to the record store to figure out what to do. his advice -- get rid of the cat . Yup, cat was soon gone to a new home who was made aware of the challenge
The next pet we acquired was an 18mth old yellow lab. She was wonderful with the kids, though had bad habits which was why they were getting rid of her. We broke her of all of them with the exception of being a garbage hound. No recylcing bin or open garbage container was safe in her midst.
It was hard to lose her. She died of cancer at a ripe old age.
Now, we have a wonderful springer spaniel. I think our best pet yet. Definitely a wonderful dog. Smart, friendly, lovable, playful....and the right size!.
We also have had two inside cats for my son. The first I wrote about when we had to put it down due to crystals. The current one is antisocial ;however, is good with our son.