UCCan Talk Rev. Tom York

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I don't know where you go with these things. I fix concrete.
I kind of had the benefit of working in IT so while most of Little M's (computer engineer in semiconductors) actual work is above my pay grade, I get what the outcome is and where it fits into the tech world. Basically, I'm the guy who buys the stuff he works on.
 
I kind of had the benefit of working in IT so while most of Little M's (computer engineer in semiconductors) actual work is above my pay grade, I get what the outcome is and where it fits into the tech world. Basically, I'm the guy who buys the stuff he works on.

Can you imagine (abstract) how much of IT is over peoples head because of factions that define what we don't need to know? Then life demands broad experiences after you leave the formal learning curve ... many never travel that road they just stand in the firmament until extracted from the mess made by collective lack of balance ...

Many people cannot even approach balance to to accelerating will ... exponential and explosive ... said to generate a cosmological cycle that is distant as Sagan's observations to normal folk ... paranormal? It arrives like angst for a few with stretched situations ... how demos drop through ...

Is that myth? They do seem to vaporize! Nothing left but whisps in the trees ... is there something to that silence, a quiet space?
 
I went down a bit of a rabbit hole last night. I follow the Whistler Museum on Facebook, and they had a post about the Whistler Chapel, a long gone A-frame structure at the base of Creekside, but once ministered by Rev. Tom York of the United Church of Canada, who sounds like a fascinating individual:


The bits about Tom are in the comments.

Continuing down the hole, I found that he was also a novelist and learned more about his life on the following page:


Anyone know of this man? He apparently died in a car accident in December of 1987.
Hi, this is Tom York's son. Yes, he was a most interesting man, and he died too young. I made this little Facebook page to honour him. Facebook I can fill in some biographical details. The first part of this is covered in his book And Sleep in the Woods, now out of print, but you can still get it in some libraries. It's well written and worth reading. In the early 60s, he and my mother were young grad students at Tulane in New Orleans. He was in the NROTC naval officer training program, but didn't like military life and was instead spiritually called to the far North after reading Joseph Campbell's Hero With a Thousand Faces and the Buddhist text The Dhammapada. This was before full-scale U.S. involvement in Vietnam. They were spiritual hippies essentially. He went AWOL by failing to report to the draft board or return to naval training. They crossed into Canada before the actual draft started - so technically he was not a draft dodger; he was AWOL. They were very young (early 20s), very educated, but with little life experience and no money. He had never seen snow before. They lived in the woods in a remote cabin in New Brunsiwch and nearly starved and froze to death there the first winter. They moved to another wilderness cabin near Barrie, Ontario, the following year. They lived on very little from teaching and small jobs. Well, to be honest, my mother worked, and he studied. She was always a hard worker and is still, to this day, in her 80s. There, while meditating and reading the Bible in NT Greek, he had a vision of Jesus and met an angel (which in Greek means 'messenger') who said he should become a Christian pastor. He became a United Church pastor after that, and they served in many remote parishes in B.C. and the Arctic (where my siblings and I were born). In the early 1970s, he decided to return and face trial for going AWOL. He had by that time developed mixed feelings about it and felt it was right to stand trial, though he didn't have to. Vietnam was now happening, so he was convicted and sentenced to three years in jail, but the church paid for a lawyer to appeal it, and he won the appeal and did not go to prison. But for about a decade until he turned himself in, he was on the FBI's wanted list. But his choices were not political. He was not protesting the war. He just wanted to meditate in the woods when he went north -- and my mother followed him. They eloped, which disturbed my maternal grandfather, who was a US Air Force Colonel. My father was not political at all, though he was one of the first pastors to perform a gay marriage in the 1970s. But he didn't want publicity for it or to make a statement. He did it only because he was asked by the couple, and it wasn't legal then. He told them not to tell anyone, but they did, and it became a big issue. He was part of PEN, which is a writer's group for freedom of speech for writers in totalitarian countries, as I recall, but for the most part he was apolitical. However, trouble followed him sometimes. In the 1980s, while at Pemberton/Whister, he was briefly fired by some Pharisee types within the United Church when he didn't defer to them, but the Pemberton congregation rallied behind him and got him reinstated. They didn't really give a reason. He just used the time to finish a novel he was working on then. He was able to rise above the usual frays and issues that suck people into them, I believe, because of his connection to God and the vision years before. He was very grounded and easy-going and charismatic. He liked being a minister and loved people, and he was very popular with most parishioners. He had a great sense of humour and treated everyone with respect. In terms of his faith, he said he was really a nature mystic who joined the church. He also carved out time for his novels and weight-lifting and canoeing and reading and was very disciplined in his schedule. In 1980 he finished his dissertation in English literature and briefly taught university courses, but his real vocation was the ministry and writing. He took being a novelist seriously and was inspired by William Faulkner. All but one of his books was published. He was very well read, reading exactly four hours every evening before bed, usually philosophy and history, in both German and English. He knew several languages. He was a great father to his four children, taking us on long canoe trips every summer and many other events. He never raised his voice or was cross with us. He was very loving. We adored him and were devastated when he suddenly died at a young age unexpectedly. So was my mother, who loved him deeply. It's nice to see someone remembering him after all these years! One last note: it was reported to me by a driver who stopped to help at the car crash where he died that they spoke for half an hour or so, and my father was calm, didn't want drugs for pain, wanted to be conscious, and knew he would die and asked the man to share his love for us. It changed that man's life, he told me. This was very much in character for him. He left a lot of notes that some literary biographer could use, but as of now, he is not well remembered. His novels were quite good and should be digitized and put online. Someting I have been meaning to do for 30 years!




 

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Hello and welcome to WC2. I wondered about the name when I approved your registration this afternoon. Thanks for the information on your father.
Thank you. We share the same name.
My mother just sent me an email correcting a few biographical details in the above note.

"We were not undergrad students at Tulane but grad students at Duke University in North Carolina when we decided to go north. Your father had an NROTC scholarship for undergraduate school, but he was out of the NROTC program while still at Tulane because he went AWOL while on an aircraft carrier. [He jumped off the aircraft carrier after being assaulted] They didn't charge him because he had a reason for diving off the aircraft carrier and swimming several miles to shore. The matter was settled as he withdrew from the program, which had been paying his tuition at Tulane. That happened long before we got married and later went to Canada. We went north not because he was reading Joseph Campbell but because he didn't want to be drafted (he was not at the time, of course), yet he knew it was coming. [So he was, in that sense, a draft dodger after all; I was incorrect.] He did not report to the draft board, something required, at that time, of all young men his age. Besides, he was drawn to the north. He had never seen a northern winter, though his father was from Maine and had described it to him. So we headed up to Ontario in mid-winter, in a snowstorm. He had read Joseph Campbell, and once we were in Canada and living in the woods, he read the Buddhist and Hindu texts. We were married well over a year and studied in graduate school at Duke (where I had a scholarship) before we headed north."
 
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