Was what you’ve done always kind, and just, and truly humble? Were the emotional flares there, but only visible to those looking closely in trying to commune, like a white/blue flame? They don’t know ahead of time that someday they might be burned by how your buried emotions manifest. I saw the flares occasionally. Why are you so certain you’re entitled to lecture and judge? Is your prerogative righteous and everybody else’s a mistake? At least they were being real. And over time, opinions can change, beliefs change, things are learned and unlearned, some things people value don’t change, some bridges get repaired, some damaged, then repaired again. People forgive and make up. Sometimes they don’t. But this crowd has generally tried to do that. Do you just hide behind the obscured nature of your communication which makes actual mutual sharing difficult? People have defended your right to do that. I used to, too. Some actually have let themselves trust and have shared more than you have, of their real selves, flawed or not. Why should anybody trust you, though, after you abuse that trust to hand them pain, and blame them for not knowing better after they’ve received pain from you? Do you see the problem there? (No? Didn’t do that?)
Have you ever typed your handle and wondercafe2.ca into Ai? I did once after seeing all the bots and wondering what would be summarized. You appear to be quite a celebrity.
