An older sister of a friend from my youth would sometimes cross paths and sometimes even work together on faith related projects..
She was brought up in Christian church, think United Church of canada.
In her adult life, her and her spouse decided to sell and give away their worldly possessions to become Buddhist monks.
She lived in an ashram.
After a year or two, it finally hit home what the teacher was saying.
Why was she there. Not, why was she becoming a monk, but why Buddhist
She did not have the cultural context to understand. All stories were new.
Once she truly heard the question, she left