Carolla
wondering & wandering
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- She/Her/Her
I find myself thinking about this too - not 'worrying' per say, but being aware of the possibility. It would have significant financial implications for me if he dies first (more than if I die first would have for him), and on a more day-to-day basis I'm aware of asking more questions about where things are kept, how he does various things etc. Certainly that's the practical side of it. The loneliness would be difficult I think.I think I mainly worry about my husband going first and being alone.
My neice's husband just died - although she is only 56, he was approaching 80 this year & had been ill, so it was not unexpected. It occured to me that she is the first among my generation & the next in our family to encounter widowhood. I have another dear young friend whose partner died in a freak work accident on a drill rig in northern Alberta, when their son was just 4 months old. That was hugely traumatic - post-partum and suddenly bereaved - and further complicated by WSIB giving her trouble about not being married. Geez.