The seniors I know have gone out, mostly shopping, more than anyone else during this. Now, when I know that there’s only 1 active case, in hospital, out of 794,000...because I’m reading the actual figures, not Facebook - we did our part to keep the most vulnerable safe (even if there was some push back at first, we did it)...mostly, it was boomer’s kids and grandkids who voluntarily began that effort here...they went all in, cheerfully...I feel irked at the fairly well-heeled 60-70+ crowd walking around, outside, individually, with their cute sewed masks on, when there’s no covid around right now - not here - to get them. If they were in NY or Montreal or downtown Toronto that’s different.. But here, they signal to others that they think they have better standards.
Because they always have done that. You know the type. Even though they don’t have better standards as much as better advantages. Kind of like stereotypical church volunteers who act the same (they do exist, I met some)...they want their superior standards recognized and to look down their noses at others, as those others are practically riff-raff and they’re confident that it’s their business to passive-aggressively point it out. It’s Victorian...colonial...privilege. Yes, that’s judgmental - because the world is never going back to the exact way it was, and some other things, including attitudes about who “deserves” looking after need to change (hint: everybody deserves what they need to stay alive and not destitute)...and it’s more sociopolitical...about entitlement...than it is about age. I need to vent that because I do want to show this virus the door...and at the same time, we cannot have never ending rolling covid quarantines. We can’t give up our collective agency. There are a myriad of other issues and injustices getting ignored and kicked down the road for younger generations...that we can’t tackle from bubble-land. My mom always told me I had to get my head out of the clouds and that expecting others to accommodate my needs was impractical, I have to keep on despite vulnerabilities because nobody owes it to me to look out for me...I heard it all my life. That advice doesn’t hold water (clouds do...haha). It’s highly hypocritical. We all need to look out for each other...and boomers need to be willing to give up some of their material and power advantages. Not just now...going forward.
Here’s a good blog article.
www.healthing.ca