Carolla
wondering & wandering
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I think for some people 'gift giving' is their "love language" - they love to do it, all year long. So for them, giving up the gifting portion is perhaps more difficult & some sort of substitution might be useful. Unfortunately I'm not one of those, and I get kind of grumpy about gifting sometimes - I like it when it's a spontaneous gesture on my initiative, but not so much when it feels forced - like at Xmas. It becomes a chore not a pleasure in some years.