I don't know about you, but the last few Christmases seemed to have changed over time....at least for me. Kay mentioned on another thread, she felt abandoned around this time of year.....and she struck a chord with me.
After the kids left home and got married, we still seemed to make sure we spent time together around Christmas. Then the grandchildren came and it was more fun than ever, but now that the grandchildren are getting older and 3 of them don't require a babysitter anymore (often me), the dynamics are changing. I'm starting to feel invisible. All of the women in the family used to preplan together, what to bring for Christmas dinner, what time we should all arrive and who's house it would be at....but fast forward and now I am told when they can "fit us in" and TOLD what they've decided.....restaurants are becoming an option.....
Anyone else feeling a little abandoned?
After the kids left home and got married, we still seemed to make sure we spent time together around Christmas. Then the grandchildren came and it was more fun than ever, but now that the grandchildren are getting older and 3 of them don't require a babysitter anymore (often me), the dynamics are changing. I'm starting to feel invisible. All of the women in the family used to preplan together, what to bring for Christmas dinner, what time we should all arrive and who's house it would be at....but fast forward and now I am told when they can "fit us in" and TOLD what they've decided.....restaurants are becoming an option.....
Anyone else feeling a little abandoned?